IC Name: WimpeyBoy Joined: 13 Jun 2007 Last visit: 265 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: UK Age: 52

Oh dear, where to start? I've been on this site for some months now but been too lazy to write a profile.

For as long as I can remember I've had this femdom fantasy - ever since trying on my older sister's clothes as a child of 10 and fantasising at the time that she was forcing me to wear them. Later it was school uniforms and the thought of being bullied by the prefects from the local girls' school into wearing their clothes and parading before them. And when I started to wank it was always the older girls or the female teachers or aunts and cousins who, in my mind, were taking me in hand and forcing me to cum. Orgasm is closely associated with punishment in my world for some weird reason!

From these early beginnings my fantasies have evolved and when I stop and try to analyse them there is a common theme running through them. I adore submission and humiliation, but it has to feel like the most natural thing in the world, not some fetishist contrivance. Which brings me on to why I hate riding crops.

I can think of no easier way to explain this than by listing likes and dislikes. The subtlety of difference between some of them is not easy to grasp, but fantasies are in the head and the head rules. But think natural, not contrived and it should become clear. Here goes:

Names: someone's real name, or a name that sounds real, is great. Mistress Pain (and the like) is not.

Forms of address: Mistress, Goddess, Highness are truly ghastly. Miss [Christian name], Miss or Mrs [surname] are perfect. Slave, worm etc are dreadful. Christian name is best - then it really feels like me who is being addressed.

Settings: Domestic brilliant. Dungeon no.

Dress: Everyday clothes are fantastic (don't we all fantasise about sumitting to the stranger on the train, the secretary in the office, the girl at a party?). So business suits, casual, rough denim, the 'little black dress' please; gothic, heavy leather, rubber, PVC no thanks! And ladies, please stay fully clothed (I adore CFNM!). And no to being collared or hooded - aaargh!

Equipment: no to most BDSM furniture (tie me to an ordinary dining chair!) and no to most toys (clothes pegs are better than clamps, fingernails are better than pin-wheels, carrots are better than most anal probes and plugs, although a dildo is OK).

X-dressing: yes please! But normal street clothes, not frilly underwear, maid's uniform. And tight-fitting (forced into your clothes, not outsized clothes specifically designed for trannies).

Humiliation: plenty of it to be had around a domestic setting. Make me strip. Make me dance. Make me sing. Make me do star-jumps naked. Make me do animal impersonations. Shove my head down the toilet and flush. Lie me in the bath and pour the contents of the fridge over me. Invite your friends round to watch. X-dress me and take me for a walk (if it's dark!). Spit on me. Pee on me. Make me drink your pee. Make me drink my own pee. Make me slap my balls. Make me talk in a girlie voice. Forced-bi (I'd love to try it!). Make me swallow my cum. Make me worship your feet. Trample my face. But don't make me crawl around on a lead or eat pet food!

Punishments: use your hands and feet. Smack my bum. Bust my balls. Squeeze my nipples. Pull my hair. Tie me and tease me without mercy. Use a TENS machine on me (it's natural, you can get one in Boots!) But no whips, no chains and NO RIDING CROPS!

Height: 6ft 2in   Weight: 13st 7lb   BMI: 24.1  

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