light in the darkness |
|
"Nothing is erotic which isn't also, with the wrong person, deeply revolting" Alain de Botton
I am me. I jog along in my life quite happily for the vast part. I love the journey. The fun. The companionship.
If something in my life doesn't bring me consistent joy and happiness, then it won't be in my life for long. Life is too short to waste it feeling sad or used.
I enjoy strong sensation to the point of pain and occasionally beyond. I enjoy inflicting the same. Both side of the coin. Sadomasochist.
I love the dynamic of Ds done well. Control or loss of control, both sides of the coin. Switch.
It makes little odds to me whether you are male or female - if we connect on some level or other we connect. If we don't we don't. I don't connect with many, I prefer to save my time and effort rather than seek endless shallow conquests.
I care for others and choose my words and my thougths with care. I expect the same back.
I am looking for the right people, seeking the missing bits. They tend to turn up when least expected.
I HATE verbal and mental abuse. I won't be party to it. It is a game I won't play.
I LOATH bullying and cowardice. There is way too much of that on the scene.
I am true to my word and my promises. Respect, dignity, honesty and truth.
My belief is pretty simple. It is the Wiccan Rede.
An it harm none, do what ye will.
If, having honestly examined
...your conscience ...your instinct ...your intent ...your path ...others paths who might be affected ...the contracts you have willingly agreed to
An it harm none, do what ye will.
Life is inevitably a case of "best endeavours".
I am pagan and wiccan to the core. I only re-awoke to that recently in this lifetime, but now I am awake to it again, I am back on my path and have no intention of leaving it.
I love kink and the people I find along the kink path. I savour and enjoy life and my journey. I am open about myself to the point of foolishness sometimes. I have faults galore - some obvious even to me, some need more delving.
As far as the "BDSM" boxes go, I am poly, switch, bi.
Always up for a chat. As far as what I seek? I don't know myself what that is from day to day so rather than tick boxes I will just get on with being me and enjoying life as much as I can 
I run various kink related businesses, I am also involved in the Coventry Play Party and the Coventry Munch.
Contact details -
MSN and email - visual-ize@live.co.uk Voice mail and SMS - 07773 219735
I am notoriously unreliable at answering either of the above, especially the phone. Memo first on here works better.
If I dont know you, please send a memo first before using either of the above.
This profile was last updated on 13 May 12, 8:57 PM.
(Please read the cautions on About Personal Ads before responding to an advert. In particular, "Flat 51, 17 Holywell Hill, St Albans, AL1 1DT" is a mailbox address used by a persistent scam artist.)
