trust love

IC Name: Trusttolove Joined: 26 Apr 2011 Last visit: Online now Sex/gender: Female Location: LS (Leeds), UK Age: 45

hello

i still count myself as new only having allowed myself to explore this side of life for the last year. having said that, i've done a lot of learning through 'mistakes' and feel in a happy place.

i love chatting on IC when i get the chance and i have been lucky to meet some wonderful people both online and in real life; such friendly, funny, supportive, playful, protective and wise people

i am lucky to have special friends who i can play with. i am trying to find my place in this world and work out what else i need to make me happy. for now that is not a relationship or play with people i don't know very well. i am always happy - if a little shy - to say hello if i'm out and about.

i love to think and ponder and discuss the psychological aspects of submission. and, when the time is right, i love to be made to stop thinking and just do it

i've experienced a lot of ups and downs in the last year and this part of my favourite poem always soothes me when i'm in tears and steadies me when i am all giddy:

"The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain...

...When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy.

When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight."

Khalil Gibran, On Joy and Sorrow

(and why isn't being scratched on the interests list?)

Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: brown grey   Height: 5ft 7in   Weight: 12st 10lb   BMI: 27.7  

This profile was last updated on 25 Mar 12, 9:26 PM.

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