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In the 10 or so years that I have been a member of this site my D/s needs have changed and I have evolved into a different Dom. What started out as an interest in CP and play is the old me, and although it is still a part of my chemistry it has been superceded by a strong need to control, both on a mental and a physical level.
The vanilla world would see me as mid forties, intelligent, single, no children and successful in my chosen career. I am confident and dominant by nature, easy going with a strong sense of humour and a very optimistic outlook on life. At heart I am a genuine romantic gentleman who believes in treating ladies as they should be treated.
I lead a healthy active lifestyle encompassing many and varied interests. My taste in music is eclectic and spans most genres, I prefer Radio 2 to Radio 1. If I watch television it's mainly for documentaries although I do enjoy watching DVD's, going to the pictures, musical theatre and live concerts. I'm as happy to stay in and prepare a meal as I am to eat out, it's the person you are with that makes the moment special.
I'm a risk taker because adrenaline fuels my love of life, I'd rather break my leg on a black run than potter down a red. I don't care about the odds or chances of winning, if there's a chance then I'll take it. Carpe Diem if you like.
The me that the vanilla world would never guess is a firm believer in discipline and control. D/s for me is more mental than physical, however when physical discipline is required make no mistake it will be administered in a strict but fair way. Being in control is a huge turn on and for me is extremely erotic.
In a punishment session I favour the belt that is around my waist, and the cane that hangs discreetly on the back of my bedroom door.
In a role-play situation I'd use whatever was appropriate to the scenario, and a hand spanking is always appropriate!!
The one that I seek is someone who appreciates old-fashioned values and is 100% comfortable with the man taking control. She will seek control and guidance in her day to day life and will strive to please. She will accept that discipline is an integral part of the relationship and whilst she fears and dreads the approach of a punishment she will be highly turned on by it. She will appreciate the mental side more than she does the physical side and this appreciation will heighten her sexual desires.
Ideally I would hope to meet someone fairly local to me, but daily contact by telephone, email or text allows the scope to develop a long distance relationship with the right person.
Thanks for reading
Eye colour: Brown Hair colour: Black Height: 6ft Weight: 12st BMI: 22.6
This profile was last updated on 9 Oct 11, 10:52 PM.
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