In amongst all my complication i am just beginning to miss/need just one thing... and that that whole mental control that a D/s relationship can give.

i have been *active* in the lifestyle for a number of years, but circumstances do not permit this right now.. However i am looking for that special One to take my hand (metaphorically speaking (for now anyway) and to guide me and teach me..

i guess as a control freak, i really hate being so outta control (which i am at the moment)...

So if You think You have what i am looking for, then please chat/memo to me...

i am quite approachable..Honest