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Its always good to get in touch with like minded comrades in a vanilla world.
Here's some information about me:
What I love about BDSM:
The intensity, topping or bottoming- In fact I'm more interested in getting the intensity than I'm hung up on the role, although I've rarely topped and bottomed with the same person at the same time
The wonderful wooosh of coming to power and the amazing aaaah of letting go.
The delightful contradictions: The way you can be in control of being out of control or out of control by trying to be in control, and when you think you are in control of being out of control but actually you've lost it!
How powerfully serious it is, and at the same time how amazingly absurd.
The way acting out power and control makes sense of it and undermines the way power and contol get abused in the outside world.
The opportunities to subvert sexism and ageism.
Some other information:
Favourite relevant writers: Dossie Easton, Pat(rick) Califa, Lynne Segal
Favourite relevant films: Blue Velvet, In the Cut, The Draughtsman's contract, Secretary
Favourtie relevant music: almost anything ambient
If you relate to any of this do get in touch!
Eye colour: brown Hair colour: brown Height: 6ft Weight: 15st 9lb BMI: 29.5
This profile was last updated on 9 Feb 10, 5:46 PM.
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