Me!	IC Name: Thesecretsmile Joined: 3 Jun 2009 Last visit: 4 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Birmingham, UK Age: 35 Website: www.photosbygary.n...

About me- First discovered the world of BDSM at 15 about the same time I popped my cherry. But it was'nt till the age of about 19ish that I was lucky enough to find a couple of experianced submissive girlfriends that really helped me nurture my "darker" side. I count myself lucky that from that age I did'nt really have a hard time finding willing people to play with, apart from the odd "you pervert" situation here and there I did preatty well and learned a great deal.

But for me BDSM remained something I did and never thought about getting in "the scene". what a mistake to make on my part. Now I'm very much enjoying meeting new people and seeing what the rest of the world gets upto, learning new things and just generaly enjoying myself.

What am I looking for- Nothing at the moment, currently teaching a lovely couple some tricks and tie's but that's about it.

I'm no longer looking for a sub's after my last which turned out to be a very intense relationship that had to end, I now find myself unwilling to take on anyone else. Hence the change from "D" to Top.

This does'nt change anything else though I will still be available to help others with rigging, abductions, idea's etc etc. I'm still the cruel old me just because I hung up my flogger does'nt mean I have forgoten how to use it.

What do I do- Photographer/studio owner from the midlands specailties incl weddings, events and TV/TS shoots in my kink friendly studio.

Where to find me- Can normally be found at the BBB and rope social at Club Spice, I'm easy to spot my name is plastered across my back. Always happy to chat so please feel free to say hi.

Personal notes about me- I treat people as I find them not always how "protocol" dictates so please inform me if I offend you, because I may want to offend you again later .

Also I'm useless with names so please dont be offended if I forget yours once or twice.

Blood and burning flesh turns my stomach, I'm not soft or anything just dont want to see or smell these things again unless I have too, so if your doing a scene and I just walk out it's probably because of that.

Eye colour: green   Hair colour: brown   Height: 5ft 7in   Weight: 13st 12lb   BMI: 30.1  

This profile was last updated on 11 Sep 11, 10:38 AM.

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