November 2007

IC Name: ThereToEnhanceHer Joined: 24 Dec 2007 Last visit: 8 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Dorset, UK Age: 52

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My name is Chris, I am a 52 year old happy, single, straight submissive male. I would like a long term relationship with one special female, and feel I am most suited to a female who likes to be in charge of her partner, would enjoy making the decisions and having her partner support her and be happy in the role.

I would like a relationship where we equally work to make it successful but in other respects the relationship is unequal. I would trust my partner to have the final say, perhaps after asking my opinion, perhaps not. My partner would trust that I would see the greater good in a relationship with one person in charge and not question her judgement. My partner could concentrate on what she wanted happy in the knowledge that it was also the most important thing to me.

About me

I live in Dorset in my own house in a quiet village. I am professionally qualified, self employed with flexible hours to allow me to devote myself to the search for a partner if I have the opportunity. Although my home is quiet and secluded, I am close to rail and road links to most of the South of England and Wales. I am interested in reading, photography, carpentry, history. I enjoy eating out, travel abroad and in the UK. I prefer small groups rather than large parties, a quiet pub rather than nightclubs. I would describe myself as quiet rather than loud.

As a teenager I went to a boys school until I was sixteen and then suddenly found myself back in mixed education. Of course the girls had changed since we were all eleven years old. I was in awe then of them then and I am still now. I have never understood how men do NOT want to worship the women in their lives.

Physically I am 5ft. 9ins. tall, slim/medium weight, auburn hair with blue eyes. I have no disabilities with good health, good personal hygiene, and a happy outlook on life. I like cats and dogs. I am a non-smoker, do not take drugs and drink moderately. Whilst I am generally and sexually submissive, I think I am a well rounded person who has no difficulty getting on well with people especially when I get to know them. I am not looking for a partner to satisfy a list of my own fetishes, but I would be very proud and privileged to be allowed to share any my partner has.

I am no Jamie Oliver but capable at household skills, cooking cleaning etc. I can work without micro-managing but also welcome any guidance my partner wants to give. Whilst I hate most of these when purely for my own benefit, they take on an entirely different aspect when for the benefit of my partner.

I have been lucky enough to have met and served dominant women in the past. I have also had successful vanilla relationships in which I couldn't help wishing for my partner to be more dominant. Now that I am single I would like to look for a relationship that does not require hiding this important part of me.

Who might be interested in me?

A dominant woman rather than a switch.

A woman looking for a submissive/slave partner and at least open to a long term relationship.

A woman within about ten years of my age.

A woman who is a dominant first, who may or may not have kinky fetishes, rather than someone who puts satisfying fetishes first.

Perhaps a woman who has reassessed her life and decided what she has missed to date, and would like for the future.

I would like to meet someone I could enjoy an evening out with and everyday activities with, but then, when they wanted it. I would happily kneel naked before them and be their slave. An obsessively polite gentleman in public and your complete and total whore behind closed doors.

I see assertive, bossy and demanding as being a positive plus in a ladies character. I am looking for someone who knows what they want from a relationship and can help me to play my part in it.

Thanks for reading this far

So if you are looking for the one, I am always happy to discuss anything with a potential partner, supply further details, contact information, photos etc. I am happy to meet as well, or to correspond for as long as it takes until you are happy to progress matters, but I am looking for a real-time relationship not an on-line one. I try to contact anyone whose desire for a relationship is compatible with mine but if you see something in my profile that matches your requirements in a partner please let me know. I realise that such relationships are rare and take time to develop but don't be afraid to contact me.

Chris

Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: auburn   Height: 5ft 10in   Weight: 11st 11lb   BMI: 23.5  

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