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IC Name:The_Problem_Page
Joined:21 Oct 2009
Last visit:7 hours ago
Type:group profile
Location:Online, UK

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"Draining the dragon" (6) by The_Problem_Page (last reply 30 Jan 12, 7:20 PM by tom_tom)
"Doubt..." (3) by The_Problem_Page (last reply 29 Jan 12, 6:34 PM by Mistressvseasterdog)

This profile (The Problem Page (TPP)) is not intended to offer, NOR does it profess to be, EXPERT help... this is simply a place to ask (anonymously or using your own ID) about personal issues that matter to you.

If you wish to post and want to remain anonymous please follow the below instructions.

The aim of this forum is to allow personal issues to be aired, discussed and answered in a mature and balanced manner - with the added safety of total anonymity, for those who wish to use it.

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Post about affairs of the heart, personal dilemmas, health issues, sexual advice, etc.... Tell your problems or ask your questions here and, hopefully, receive some good advice/support about whatever troubles or ails you.

In simple terms...

If you send TPP a memo (stating exactly what you want posted) it will be posted on your behalf, anonymously... that way you'll be able to take some comfort in the knowledge that the responders to it will have no idea who they're directing their honest and frank comments to/at.

If you post your problem/dilemma/etc. under your own name, from your own profile... directly onto the TPP blog pages, everyone will see who posted it, it will appear under YOUR profile name.

TPP does not promise/guarantee to make a comment or reply to every post placed on the blog page - there are some subjects that are better left for those who have more experience of them, to respond.

No question is too small or too BIG, you will be given honest and sensible answers, you might get some no-nonsense, straight-talking replies but... that's the nature of this beast known as IC, it happens, so please be prepared for some answers that you might not like.

You don't have to subscribe or be on the list of contacts to join in. However, if you want to subscribe, or bookmark, this profile... in order to gain faster access and to avoid searching every time, it's allowed! ;)

You have the option to make your own post using your own ID (which, of course, will mean you're NOT anonymous).

If you want to use The Problem Page as a board for your problem, feel free to do so - the boards will be monitored with regard to abusive replies but, other than that, anyone can reply on a "free-for-all" basis.

~ Any replies, posted on any of the blogs, that are considered to be rude or abusive, will be hidden. If anyone thinks I have missed something... please feel free to memo me, to point me in the right direction. ~

**The Problem Page guarantees that absolute discretion is assured for all those who wish to use the "anonymity" option (unless you "break cover" and reveal yourself by replying directly to others, of your own volition).**

Just to confirm - If you want to ask something anonymously, send this profile a memo and the contents of that memo will be posted, by TPP - without mentioning who asked the question.
  • All/any comments made by The Problem Page will be posted on the blog.
  • TPP reserves the right to refuse to add your post if it is considered to be unsuitable.
  • TPP will not enter into lengthy memo exchanges with individuals, not only is it too time consuming but it also defeats the object of this forum.

If you would like to respond to any of the "Anonymous" OP posts but feel your reply is too personal to post under your own IC profile name, you can:
  • Option a) send this profile a memo (containing your reply to the "Anon" OP) and request it to be posted on the publicly viewed blog on your behalf, anonymously.

or

  • Option b) send this profile a memo (containing your reply to the "Anon" OP) and request to have it passed on to them via memo, anonymously.

(Whichever of the above anonymous options you choose to use please make sure your memo includes your instructions to TPP, about how you wish your memo to be handled - either Option a) OR Option b).)

*N.B. - The above options are ONLY available for those replies that are too personal for anyone else to know who made them and is NOT available if you want to post any rude or abusive replies anonymously.

  • If the "Anon OP" is invited to enter into memo communication (with one of the IC members who has posted a reply), it is their decision if they wish to but... the "Anon OP" should be aware that their anonymity is no longer assured by The Problem Page and that they are choosing to reveal their ID independently of The Problem Page.
  • The Problem Page is, regrettably, unable to offer to forward ALL answers to any post using the "anonymous memo only reply" basis - sadly it is unworkable and defeats the object of having an open forum.
  • The Problem Page is NOT to be used as a "go-between" for personal issues between members of IC.
  • The Problem Page will not post on any blog/board/post other than their own.
  • The Problem Page is not responsible for the comments that IC members make but, as far as is humanly possible, this forum will be monitored to ensure that only relevant posts are visible.

Anyone who chooses to use this forum should be aware that the blogs are usually open to anyone who wants to post a reply (unless it is rude or abusive), some posts could appear to be harsh, however... as long as they're valid and reasoned posts they will remain on view (until or unless the poster chooses to remove it).

Please note - you can ask ANYTHING but, if thought necessary, you will be directed to seek out professional help.

IC's Acceptable Use Policy (AUP)

@Chartreuse (aka TPP)

This profile was last updated on 4 Dec 11, 7:18 PM.

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