The Counsellor

IC Name: The_Counsellor Joined: 13 Apr 2007 Last visit: 8 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Warrington, UK Age: 51 The_Counsellor donates to help keep IC running

Kink friendly counsellor to assist you. Someone to talk to who understands.

Sort out your life. Clarify who you are, and what you want. Accept and like yourself.

Are there things that annoy you about your life or yourself? Do you need more self confidence? Do you want to be able to communicate your needs and feelings to others more clearly?

Don't suffer in silence. Don't try to forget it all, and settle for a normal life. Don't spend your time wondering what is wrong with you. Don't feel alone and different. Don't get depressed. Don't live a lie.

Therapy can be surprisingly quick and inexpensive. We will work towards your desired outcome. Many of my clients only need two or three therapeutic sessions to set them on their way.

Some of the issues with which I can assist are below:

• "Coming out" to friends and family
• Negotiating with your partner to try a change in relationship
• Finding a compatible partner
• Self esteem
• Finding your first real live bdsm experience
• Becoming comfortable with your self and your desires
• Joining the "scene"
• Gender and Sexuality issues
• Working out which of your desires you want to convert into real life
• Fears about "what if my work colleagues found out?"
• Reconciling bdsm sexual desire with the rest of personality and values
• Couples counselling for relationship issues
• How to tell someone what you want
• Internet addiction
• Porn Addiction
• Resolving Relationship conflict
• Moving on from a broken relationship

I am a trained, qualified, registered, insured, supervised and experienced counsellor / therapist. My primary mode of therapy is neuro linguistic (NLP) and I work eclectically. NLP identifies the thinking patterns that get in your way, and offers ways to change your thinking, that changes your life. NLP presupposes that your way of seeing things is unique and useful to you, or was useful in some context, and we start from there. I have been a bdsm practitioner for many years. I am completely comfortable discussing all aspects of sexuality, bdsm practice, gender issues, self image and self esteem issues. Whatever your issue, you will be accepted, and supported to find an answer. Therapeutic sessions take place in a discreet comfortable relaxing vanilla office. Confidentiality between therapist and client is assured.

I believe that bdsm and sexuality should express your desires and personality fully and should be fully consensual and not contravene the law, and will encourage you to do the same. This is a therapy and counselling service. I am not offering mistress services, sexual services or any bdsm play.

To discuss your issues, and see if I can help you, contact me in the first instance at admin@life-goals.co.uk or phone 07970 723 565 (please let your caller id be shown as I won't answer calls from withheld numbers). Please mention this IC profile in your e-mail or phone call. Please describe what you would like help with, or what you are feeling at the moment. Say as much as you feel comfortable sharing. More will help me get a fuller picture, but a few words can be very powerful. I will e-mail in reply and I will then arrange a free 20 minute phone discussion or meeting to help us decide if we can work together.

This profile was last updated on 18 May 11, 4:18 PM.

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