This is for YOU, young lady!

IC Name: The_Big_Bear Joined: 16 May 2007 Last visit: 40 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Darlington, UK Age: 65 Website: http://www.the-big...

Update

Now in a committed Dom/sub relationship with the lovely OrientalFlower

Straight Male Top

I'm a straight male top, strongly into D/S and with a sadistic streak, an intelligent and creative Dom with a dash of the nurturing 'Daddy Dom' thrown in.

An autobiography

I started my adult life at an Art College, where I studied Graphic Design, eventually specialising in animated film making. But I couldn't get a job using those skills, so I sort of drifted into a rather dreary life; sales, sales admin, marketing, retail management, then became a trainer (hey, I was GOOD at that), before redundancy/retirement.

Along the way I got married (it lasted 14 years before she left me) and had children - they still live with me and I love them to bits.

Now, my kids are grown up enough to let me live my own life. I feel as though I have a new chance at life. So, of course, first on the agenda was to look around for beautiful sexy young submissive women! LOL

I am am member of the Fetish Photo Album

Three Duties of a Dominant

I've been thinking about this for a while. A sort of 'Dominant's Code', inspired (as Science Fiction fans will realize) by Asimov's Three Laws of Robotics. I'll leave it to you to make your mind up as to whether it's deep philosophical thought, or rambling gibberish.

I know that many of you will disagree with it, but, hey, it's MY profile and it's MY philosophy. So there!

The First Duty of a Dominant is to protect the health and safety of, and to respect the limits of, the submissive.

The Second Duty of a Dominant is to maximize his own sadistic amusement and/or sexual pleasure by consensual abuse and use of the submissive's body, except where this would conflict with the First Duty.

The Third Duty of a Dominant is to maximise the submissives pleasure and enjoyment, except where this would conflict with the First or Second Duties.

Sapiosexuality

• Sapiosexuality: being sexually aroused by high intelligence.

Yeah - I always knew I was turned on by highly intelligent women - but I've only just found out there's a word for it, cool!

Erotic Drawing

I am also an amateur artist specialising in erotic artwork. See some of my work at www.the-big-bear.com

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This profile was last updated on 25 Dec 11, 1:55 PM.

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