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IC : Profiles : ThePhilanthropist
| Profile: | ThePhilanthropist |
| Created on: | 27 Aug 2007 |
| Last visit: | 21 hours ago  |
| Country: | UK |
| Location: | Sheffield |
| Sex/gender: | Male |
| Weight: | 10st 10lb |
| Height: | 5ft 10in |
| BMI: | 21.4 |
| Sex/gender seeking: | Female | | Ad title: | I come in peace... |
| Ad updated: | 184 days ago |
I ran away from home in Paris at 16 & came - for reasons no one's fully worked out - to Sheffield!!!  I've settled in the U.K. now. Music has always been a major part of my life. I try to keep fit. I like jogging, walking, listening to people & watching them getting on with their lives. I try to anderstand others without judging who they are, what they are or what they do. When I meet someone for the first time I "feel", then I see & hear. My gut instinct guides me... I like to think I'm open-minded ( Live & let live). Something important to me: Peace, Love & Tolerance... The world would be a better place to be...
I don't take myself too seriously. Fun is the name of the game & I'm having fun!!! I like to love & be loved by my neighbours, be at peace with myself & others as much as I can, bearing in mind it's not a perfect world & I'm not perfect either!!! 
Like anyone else I've had my fair share of hurts over the years... I'm deeply romantic & sentimental, wich one day, I'm sure, will be the end of me... I don't know whether it's good or bad but I feel love & pain more than some people dream of (not good pain!!! The kind of pain that rips one's inside apart, that tortures one's mind & breaks a heart)... Well, lots of passion, lots of hurt but at least I'm really living & absorbing all of life... I try to turn the negative & the pain into something positive... I do not like to be the subject of false rumours... Although any publicity is better than none at all!!!  I want to see as many happy persons as possible around me... This is the real victory...
In time I will be looking for a loving, caring submissive female who eventually will become my special & beloved sub in a long term D/s relationship, based on love, trust, honnesty & mutual respect. Communication, chemistry & compatibility are important, I want my sub to feel confortable to express truthfully her feelings to me. I want that person to be my best friend, my soulmate, my partner, the one who falls asleep in my arms every night...
I'll do everything I can so my sub trusts me to look after her & to keep her safe at all time in view to push her limits in a safe & consensual manner. I'll control her, protect her, guide her & have her best interest at heart...
I will be looking for someone with whom I've got some common interests & not just the BDSM side of things, althought it would be always underlaying as part of a 24/7 D/s relationship. For me D/s is not just about physical bondage & restraint, it's aswell about mental obedience, control & discipline (& protocoles too!!! I love protocoles... ) OK, I love chains aswell!!! What a great feeling to have the special "one" sitting on the floor at my feet in chains... (chains rule!!! )
I want to do things, go places, get to know that person & evolve as a couple... Get to discover life together... I want to find a person I'd be happy to take with me on a deserted island & vice-versa, a person who'd be happy to follow me on a deserted island, submitting, obeying for the fulfilment & happiness of both of us & a deep desire to please me because we would live a passionate love story... The D/s relationship is a teamwork not a battle against each other.
I'm affectionate, tactile & a caring person, young at heart. I love to walk hand in hand... & I love cuddles.
The best advices that have never been given to me are all the hard lessons learnt through trials & errors of my life. I'm not bitter towards anybody though. Everything I did, had to be done & tried...
A stranger is a friend I haven't met yet... So I'm trying to go to as many munches as possible & meet as many kinky perves as possible from all horizons!!! Friends is all I want (& all I need) for the time being (althought one day I hope to come accross that "special person" )... I've got a great appetite for life & happiness!!! Wonderfull people I have met at Munches & on IC, make me feel great...
I am not looking for the path to happiness,
it's the path that is happiness... This profile was last updated on 26 Dec 09, 12:37 AM
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