20 Jan 2012

IC Name: ThePhilanthropist Joined: 27 Aug 2007 Last visit: 25 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: South Yorkshire, UK Age: 47

Hi,

I'm french born. I ran away from home in Paris at 16 and came (for reasons no one's fully worked out!!! ) to Sheffield. I've settled in the U.K. now...

I love live music. I try to keep fit. I like jogging, walking, listening to people and watching them getting on with their life. I try to anderstand others without judging who they are, what they are or what they do...

I like to think that I'm opened minded (live and let live). I have my own little way of seeing the world... wich is simple and beautiful... (Well sometime!!! ) Something important to me: peace, love and tolerance... The world would be a better place to be...

I'm passionate with lots of things in my life (What doesn't passionate me bores me!!! ). When I meet someone I feel, then I see and hear... My instinct guides me.

I'm deeply romantic and sentimental, wich one day will be the end of me! like anyone else I've been hurt in the past... I'm not sure if it's a good or bad thing but I feel love and pain (not good pain!!! ) more than some people dream of... Well, lots of passion, lots of hurt but at least I'm really living and absorbing all of life. I do my best to turn the hurt and pain into a positive energy, even being the victim of false rumours and nasty gossips!!! After all there isn't any bad publicity!!!

In time I will be looking for a loving, caring submissive female wich eventually will become my special and beloved slave in a long term relatioship, based on love, trust and honnesty. Communication is important, I want my slub/slave to feel confortable to express truthfully her feelings to me, be it through talking, writting, body language and even our silences. I believe between 2 persons on the same wavelength the means of communication are endless... I want that person to be my best friend and my soulmate...

I'll do everything I can so my sub/slave trusts me to look after her and to keep her safe at all time in view to push her limits in a safe and consentual manner. I'll control her, protect her and have her best interest at heart.

I'll be looking for someone with whom I've got some common interests and not just the BDSM side of things, althought it would be always underlaying as part of a 24/7 D/s relationship... For me D/s is not just about physical bondage and restraint, it's aswell about mental obedience, control and discipline... (and protocols!!! I love protocols!!! Protocols are like an invisible chain that binds a sub/slave to remind her of her status)

I want to do things, go places, get to know the person and evolve as a couple... Get to discover life together... I want to find a person I'd be happy to take with me on a deserted island and vice versa, a person who'd be happy to follow me on a deserted island, obeying, following my rules for the fulfilment and happiness of both of us and a deep desire to please me at all levels because we'd be deeply in love... The D/s, Master/slave relationship is a team work, not a battle against each other.

I'm affectionate, tactile and a caring person, young at heart. I love to walk hand in hand and I love cuddles... I don't take myself too seriously. I like to love and be loved by my neighbours, be at peace with myself and others as much as I can, bearing in mind it's not a perfect world and I'm not perfect either!!!

The best advices that have never been given to me are all the hard lessons learnt through trials and errors in my life... I'm not bitter towards anybody though. Everything I did had to be done and tried...

I've got a great appetite for life and happiness. Wonderfull people I've met over the years at munches and on IC make me feel great... Although I appear to have no friends in my network!!! I had to delete my profile for a while to cut the risks of being outed...

I'm not looking for the path to happiness, it's the path that is happiness...

Peace

Eye colour: green   Hair colour:    Height: 5ft 10in   Weight: 12st 9lb   BMI: 25.2  

This profile was last updated on 27 Jan 12, 1:23 AM.

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