I am on IC to keep in touch with friends and to post on threads that attract my interest.

I will not answer IMS from people I do not know - sorry, I simply do not have the time. I also much prefer to receive memos rather than the medium of chat anyway. When you have experienced the enjoyment that real life bdsm brings, I don't see any point, or have any interest in, the virtual world of on line. Cybering holds no appeal for me, I very much have a first life and don't need a second one!

Fem Dom is a part of me - but not the only aspect of my identity. My main passions are the arts - music, cinema and literature. I also love good food and engaging with enthralling company for inspiring conversations. Politically, I am a left wing libertarian. Honesty is of crucial importance to me, so be honest with yourself first and foremost and then with me.

I value my many friends tremendously and enjoy meeting them over cocktails in hotels of historical interest, relaxing in traditional cafes, dancing and appreciating the many attractions that London offers.

Those who submit to me do so in the knowledge that I take what I do seriously, which does not mean there cannot be a playful quality in the interaction. I am not of the opinion that bdsm isn't sexual but it does not always have to contain overt sexual elements.

I find fulfilment when I believe that a male has given up control to me. What form this takes is less important than the sense that this kind of dynamic is in evidence. I enjoy the underlying feeling, rather than being fixated on the technical aspects. Ideally, and I believe this kind of relationship is hard to find and takes work, I enjoy owning a slave. I am not here to advertise as I have the people in my life that I am happy with. I am proud and delighted to be the owner of Plinth for Her Feet. I am also deeply appreciative of the service I receive and have received from some very special people in our world.

Despite attending different kinds of scene events, I am far more interested in domestic and private situations. My main area of interest is in a Mistress/slave relationship, although I believe how this manifests itself is unique to the individuals concerned. I am more into D/s than S/M but acknowledge the limitations of labels.