Over the last 3 years, through my best friend, I've become involved in the "Adult School" roleplay scene. I "teach" at several "schools", I'm also Deputy Head at 2 of these and am known by a good number of schoolies on here. My school name is Mr Melman - any ideas where it came from?

I've been regularly attending a couple of BDSM/Fetish clubs for the last 2 years. Consensual Kink in Bournemouth and also in the last year Sweet Torments in London - both great "play" clubs. I've made some great friends…

You can also find me on Fetlife, British Spanking and Facebook or you can follow me on Twitter.

I also sell bits & pieces (mostly BDSM/Fetish) on eBay.

Still looking for someone…

Hi there, before you start reading this be aware it's not the standard personals ad (i.e a one-liner saying “if you're a sub female contact me”)

About me –

Personal – I'm a 39 year old single male. I work as an on-site Drilling Supervisor. I am based in Shepton Mallet (Somerset) but my work takes me all over the UK. I'm quite a shy person and so find it difficult to meet new people (which is why I haven't been to any munches and the like) BUT once the ice has been broken I'm fine and I come out of my shell. I'm 5' 6” tall and a social drinker and smoker (although I am trying to give up the smoking!). I enjoy sports (mostly watching though), D.I.Y, films and TV (opps does that make me sound like a couch potato?)

Scene – I am a Dom and only a Dom (sorry if that puts some of you off but I have tried being on the receiving end and I get no enjoyment from it - sorry). I've been into the spanking & BDSM scene for more years than I can recall – my first purchase was a copy of Janus 48 (which I still have). Anyone know what year that was? Before making that purchase I can remember sitting watching black & white films on the TV mesmerized at the punishment scenes (schoolroom canings, naval floggings etc.) As for my practical experience, my first “play” party was a BDSM event run by Club Whiplash at avenue in the Twickenham/Kingston area. Since then I've been to numerous events on both the spanking & BDSM scenes including Whiplash, TG, The Gate, The Castle, The Bridge. RedStripe, OTK, Peaches, Night Of The Cane, Actually Spanking, Cheeky Girls and others… Several of these and other club organisers have called upon me to help demonstrate or “mind”. I also go to the LFF (but not as often as I did when I was running a stall there). I have my own spanking club and several websites though I don't run many events myself. I have “played” with a number of pro (and amateur) spankees on a 1-2-1 basis. Several spanking films on the market have me appearing as the Dom from producers like OTK, Peaches, Connoisseur and most recently SOL. There are several members of this site who know me (or know of me).

About you –

I am looking for real-time meets rather than cyber relationships, although email and IM contact is a good way to start. You'll be a genuine female aged between 25 – 45 years (though this isn't rigid, just a practical ideal). You will be a spankee/sub (or a spanker/domme who needs to be tamed!). If you're not into the BDSM scene and prefer straight corporal punishment that's OK. I'm really looking for something long-term BUT I'm not adverse to occasional meetings if that's all you're looking for. If you want to help with the club/websites then all well and good BUT if you don't then no problem. Other than that I don't have any predetermined ideas.

My email address, website, IM contacts etc. are on my profile so if you think we might have something in common please get in touch.