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IC : Profiles : Tapestry
| Profile: | Tapestry |
| Created on: | 23 Feb 2006 |
| Last visit: | 9 hours ago  |
| Country: | UK |
| Location: | Bristol |
| Sex/gender: | Male |
| Age: | 39 |
| Eye colour: | Blue |
| Height: | 5ft 10in |
| Sex/gender seeking: | Female | | Ad title: | Lust, Laughter and .. |
| Ad updated: | 373 days ago |
...longevity. Is it possible to find all three on IC? Ultimately I'm seeking a LTR but until I meet the person I hope will become my companion I'm happy to explore along the way.
How difficult is this next bit? Describing oneself is always tricky; succinctly conveying one's attachment to kink more so. The permutations too; do I lead with person or pervery? Try to be humorous or keep it straight? But enough. What follows is, at least for now, an accurate picture of who I am and where I'm at.
I identify more with D/s than s&m in that it's the psychological that I find fulfilling; the meeting of minds and shared acknowledgement that one has captured the other and is free to utilise it however she wishes. I do love the physical aspect of kink and believe it can undoubtedly intensify the dynamic. It's just that I believe its largely an outward expression of that dynamic.
My submissiveness does not represent the sum of my personality but it is an intrinsic element of it. I can best summarise its meaning for me as a profound need to give up control to a woman; to serve and to please her.
“The greatest virtues are those which are most useful to other persons” ..I think Aristotle had an accurate take on the submissive mindset.
The rest of me is a fit, attractive, reasonably intelligent male currently living in Bristol. I work in the public sector and am slowly inching my way towards managing a better work-life balance. I don't find it easy to describe myself as I often feel I'm a walking collection of contradictions. Is it just me that secretly feels this or do most people?? But that I'm friendly, sociable and optimistic are pretty much constants.
While identifying as submissive I am not a doormat. I am not compliant in my everyday life and while, for the right person, I will gleefully serve and endure as required I have my own thoughts, ideas and opinions. I am drawn to people that like to talk and laugh and are reasonably confident. I hope to meet someone fun, interesting and cultured who in terms of relationships happens to want the flip side of what I'm looking for. Someone that will cherish, nurture and enjoy my submission.
A random list of some of the things I like; walking, the countryside, deserted beaches, thunderstorms, theatre, politics, psychology, country churches, fitness, The Wire, The Sopranos, 17th century history, running in the summer rain, conversation, modesty, courtesy, confidence, St Paul's Cathedral, The Office, Bloc Party, Franz Ferdinand, The Prodigy, Laurel & Hardy
Some things I don't; rudeness, early mornings, most politicians, reactionary newspapers, spirits
In addition to the above I'd also like to correspond with people and find new friendship. So if you'd like to get in touch just to say hi that would be cool.
T.
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