Hi there

Oh I'm just me.

I like chatting on IC, because I like debate.

I'm on IC as I find the people interesting and the topics argumentative. Or is that the other way round?

I'm a tall bright lively woman, who likes people.

I've just got a new puppy, Chloe, a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, and she has totally turned my life upside down.

I'm now having to get up at 7am every day and be in bed by 11pm so I can cope. I have to get puppy sitters (offers welcome) and I'm never going to be able to have a relationship ever again...... unless they like watching TV with a puppy snuggled on my lap.

I need to get a puppy sitter for the games night, which I like as I'm horribly competitive.

Well, maybe I'll meet someone special someday to spend some time with - I'm a good catch! I can cook splendid roast dinner, cooked breakfast even if hungover, do my and your DIY, have finances under control and help you, plan great holidays, think of fun things to do, be a laugh or be serious, and generally make things happen.

If you're 6 foot 1 or above and would like to put your arm round me so for a change I feel little and like there's someone there for me instead of doing it all myself, well I'd like to hear from you...

I would say, however, that if you refer to me as a "sub" or a "slut" or a "whore" when you haven't even met me, you are not likely to get a reply. Also, if we're chatting and you quickly ask me to tell you all about my BDSM experience, to reveal my "deepest, darkest fantasy" or start telling me about what kind of thing you like to do (eg pull my hair etc) before we've even met, I'm likely to disappear quite quickly.