Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Choose your words, for they become actions. Understand your actions, for they become habits. Study your habits, because they become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny.

Do no harm. Do someone some good. Do not try to change the world. If we can leave it a slightly better place than we found it, then we have made our contribution. Be content with that.

I am a genuine assertive lifestyle Alpha, 6ft3in, medium build, hazel eyes, clean shaven, single and a genuinely very young looking 43, with 25 years experience of all aspects and all levels of the D/s scene, including control, humiliation, domination and restraint. I do specialise in discipline. The experienced and inexperienced are both very welcome. I have enjoyed helping many subs as well as Dommes discover the many pleasures and pains of D/s. However, we all need to remember that you never stop learning.

I enjoy the emotional, erotic, psychological as well as the physical aspects of the lifestyle. Take the mind; the body will follow. I believe in traditional values; respect, honesty, good manners and discipline. Also vitally important, I feel, is a sense of humour. I have one. Somewhere. I put it somewhere safe......

There are so many diverse aspects in the amazing world of D/s and spanking / CP is merely one of many. Please remember that the list of interests below is merely an indication of just that - interests - and is not exhaustive. It is a shame that so many BDSM lovers are blinkered to many of the delights. "Live and let kink!"

I do have a caring and sensual side as well. Apparently. Somewhere. Now, where did I put it........? Perhaps it is with the sense of humour? Better go and look.....

I am looking for that special naughty submissive / slave - for fun, friendship and spanking good times - ultimately as a long term relationship.

Respect and safety are totally assured. All limits are fully respected, but extended as discussed and appropiate.

London based and fully able to accomodate but I do travel extensively for work purposes, specifically to Edinburgh, Glasgow and Manchester at least every other week, and less often to Belfast.

De vrienden komen in vele guises. Soms denken die u de minst. Neem hen nooit voor verleend, omdat u hen nodig zult hebben. Één dag.

... and for those who understand...... "aina!"

PS. The multi speed multi size Fucking Machine is available for private parties hen nights and clubs......"every girl should try one....!"