IC Name: StrangerInTheNight Joined: 12 Nov 2011 Last visit: 18 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: LONDON (from Italy), UK Age: 63

Hello to everyone, first of all I apologize for my bad English - I am a "stranger in the night", after all...

Basically, I am a rather simple person. A few friends, carefully chosen, not an intense social life, that tends to make me bored. Complete personal freedom, as I am separated and live by my own.

I am fit and healthy, and they say that I am good-looking. I have an assertive and spontaneously dominant personality, both with men and women - more with women, but without particular feelings of "male supremacy".

All of my life I have been strongly attracted to s/m and practiced it with women who were generally friends of mine, and remained friends even after the relationship finished, for contingent reasons (displacement to a far place, marriage, etc.).

Currently, I am trying to find a good bottom partner for a long-lasting relationship or for a shorter but intense shared experience.

The lady I am looking for may not be a complete submissive and she may even have sadistic tendencies. I like this latter thing in a not dominant woman, as it's a sadism that I control and use for my pleasure.

What she seeks has to do with "sensations" and "complicity" more than "ideas" ("service", "supremacy"...). She is excited with the idea of progressive pain infliction and her learning of new tolerance thresholds.

She prefers a global relationship, a friendship that includes other aspects than s/m. However, she also appreciates the kind of authentic communication and complicity that that "complementary pain experience" can add to that global relationship and friendship.

She may not desire sexual interaction, and this would be OK for me. I think that s/m is erotic in itself... Real life encounters only, please! Virtual things make me bored. Early face to face meet, not endless chatting...

Thank you!

Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: grey   Height: 5ft 9in   Weight: 14st 2lb   BMI: 29.0  

This profile was last updated on 14 May 12, 7:08 AM.

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