Dressed up as me.

IC Name: Stillyet Joined: 24 Nov 2009 Last visit: 186 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Galloway, UK Age: 56 Website: http://www.journey...

[Not currently looking - lover/owner of @ionicmonkey]

[Founder of and contact for @Kidnappers_Guild]

There are three bits to my life which are really important to me. Firstly I write. What I write is mostly about relationships between people; you can find some of my stories on my own website and some on Literotica. The stories tell you a little about who I am, but not that much, because they are fiction.

Secondly, I cycle a lot, and sail and camp a bit; and walk, and climb hills. Active things, out of doors. If being out in the weather and getting wet and tired and dirty doesn't appeal to you then I'm probably the wrong person for you.

Finally, I plant trees, and look after trees, with friends. Not a lot, these days, but it's important to me. I'm mostly a quiet and solitary person, but doing things with friends matters.

Apart from that, I'm rather serious and thoughtful. I'm agnostic rather than atheist, but I'm strongly against most organised religion. I'm politically libertarian, fairly green and very left wing; within Scottish politics, I see the break up of the United Kingdom as a good thing (but mainly for geopolitical rather than domestic reasons). I enjoy thoughtful and reasoned discussion of these things. I read a lot, mainly fiction; I play and write role playing games on computers; I listen to Radio 4. I don't have (and don't want) a television.

I'm a sensualist. I love to dance. I love the wild places of the world, particularly forests.

I am a complex person, not in any way an alpha-male dominant. I am often extremely gentle. I am possessive and protective. I am thoughtful in many senses of that word. But at the same time I am extremely interested in the theatre and performance of domination - a friend once described me as 'a mild, inoffensive sadist'. I'd rather remain celibate for the rest of my life than have a relationship with someone who preferred to have sex in the missionary position at night in bed with the light off.

I'm looking for someone - one someone, not several someones - to play with. I don't need anyone. I'm pretty happy as I am. Ideally, when I find that someone, I want our relationship to last as long as possible. The person I'm looking for is adult in the full sense of that term - her own person, with her own life. She might be an academic or an artist. She is certainly physically fit, and takes some regular exercise (if she were a cyclist that would be splendid). She loves the quiet, wild places of the world. Sexually, she is open, playful and imaginative. She is almost certainly not currently in a relationship with anyone else.

I don't have - and don't want - a television. I do enjoy watching cycle races on the television occasionally; I do enjoy the occasional nature programme; and sometimes I want to see pictures of something in the news. On the other hand, I do sometimes enjoy watching films at home, in the right company.

Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: fair   Height: 6ft   Weight: 10st 13lb   BMI: 20.6  

This profile was last updated on 31 Jan 11, 11:02 AM.

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