IC Name: SpikyBear Joined: 29 Oct 2011 Last visit: 8 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Leeds, UK Age: 37

The Basics

I am single, and seek a completely monogamous loving relationship with one special submissive kinky lady.

A Brief Intro

As you may have noticed, I'm new on here. Having been an unregistered guest on IC for a year or so, I decided to sign up to see what it's all about. Although I've only recently joined, I have been interested in kink and BDSM for quite a long time and would like to learn more.

The Vanilla Stuff

In many respects this section of my profile is the most important part as I'm looking for a long-term-relationship, rather than just a casual play partner. For me, the Kink and BDSM part of a relationship is the icing, rather than the cake. I need to be able to connect with someone on a day-to-day basis as well as during any Kink and BDSM play sessions.

So, what am I like? I'm fairly easy going, open-minded, patient, reasonably intelligent and well educated. I can be quite philosophical and like a good debate about important things, but discussing silly things is often more fun. I derive pleasure from the simple things in life, a nice pub meal after a day out; followed by snuggling up with the one I love. I'm quite active and love walking and cycling in the Yorkshire Dales, but also enjoy cultural days out, nights out to the cinema, or a game of Scrabble at home.

The Kinky Stuff

Although I've been interested in kink and BDSM for some time, I've never had an opportunity to properly explore this part of who I am. Consequently, I'd be happy to meet someone experienced, who would like to share their likes and dislikes with me. In return I offer my imagination to create new and enjoyable experiences for my partner. Alternatively, I'd like to meet a complete newbie to share the journey together.

What I'm Looking For (Vanilla)

A fun-loving, intelligent, affectionate, single lady who is not afraid to commit to one person. Someone to be my companion, lover, friend, and maybe even to start a family with one day. Someone with plenty of interests beyond Kink and BDSM, maybe fairly active and likes to get out into the countryside for a bit of fresh air and exercise. Probably someone aged from about 27 to 37 so that we're reading from roughly the same page.

What I'm Looking For (Kink and BDSM)

A kinky submissive lady who is open-minded about trying new things. Squeaky clean on the outside, but totally filthy on the inside. I'm looking for someone who enjoys playing at the sensual end of the BDSM spectrum. Oh, and if you're terribly ticklish that would be a bonus!

Some Kinky Books I Enjoyed Reading (Links to Amazon)

What Happens to Bad Girls

Behind The Curtain

Penny in Harness

Most Buxom

Tie and Tease

Tickle Torture

Eye colour: Green   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 6ft   Weight: 11st 11lb   BMI: 22.2  

This profile was last updated on 28 Jan 12, 7:49 PM.

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