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IC : Profiles : SnowdropExplodes
| Profile: | SnowdropExplodes |
| Created on: | 5 Dec 2004 |
| Last visit: | 6 days ago  |
| Country: | UK |
| Location: | Near Tunbridge Wells |
| Sex/gender: | Male |
| Email: | snowdrop-explodes@talk21.com |
| Yahoo messenger: | snowdrop_explodes Y! |
| MSN ID: | snowdrop-explodes@talk21.com |
| Homepage: | http://afemanistvi... |
| Age: | 31 |
| Hair colour: | chestnut |
| Eye colour: | brown |
| Weight: | 17st 7lb |
| Height: | 5ft 10in |
| BMI: | 34.9 |
| Sex/gender seeking: | Male or Female | | Ad title: | Dom with Cake, Cane, Cuddles and Kink |
| Ad updated: | 764 days ago |
Hi,
Most of this profile deals very much with my BDSM interests, how I approach my role as Dominant and sadist, what I feel I can offer a sub in terms of BDSM and generally all-round about how BDSM fits into my life. That's really because BDSM would form a big part of any relationship for me, so compatibility on that level is pretty important. However, it doesn't mean that the rest of life is unimportant to me - a sub is a person first of all, and I find it hard to Dom someone I don't like as a person! So please please please, if you write to me (or if I've written to you first), tell me something about your life and interests outside of BDSM! (My comments about my own non-BDSM life and interests are further down, near the end of the profile text)
I'll just mention here my three "unique selling points":
I like to bake cakes and share them with my girl friends
I am willing to share my porn collection with them
I like to cuddle and chat etc.
Cake, kink and cuddles - can you say no!?
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I am seeking a long-term real-life relationship with a sub or slave who will be submissive in the bedroom, but also to some extent in the rest of life as well, though to what extent that would be is something we'd work out together. 24/7 is something that my circumstances won't support at present, although it would be something I would be happy to work towards with a partner who wanted to go that far. I would say I am seeking a slave, but some people who call themselves subs (and I'd be happy to use that term too!) seem to advertise as wanting (or write their blogs as having) the same sort of relationship as I seek, while some who call themselves slaves do not. In particular, I would like to say that while the sex side of things is important to me, I am convinced that if I had to choose, I would be perfectly happy in a D/s relationship with no sex, but a relationship with kinky-sex and no D/s could never satisfy me. In my ideal relationship, D/s would always be there in some form, but that would go alongside all the other 'nilla things in life (like having a laugh together, or going out for a good time) so that it is an undercurrent, not the complete all-and-everything.
I would prefer someone I can travel to easily, meaning that the East Sussex, West Kent, London areas are best; if she is willing to do all the travelling, I can accommodate at my home, though - and for the right person I am able to relocate.
My approach to BDSM is very much on the mental and
emotional level as much as the physical. The brain is the most potent and important sexual organ, and I like to stimulate it (both mine and my partner's) a great deal. My biggest turn-on is turning on my partner!
I can be firm, tough and forceful, but also calm and
gentle as suits the moment. I believe that less is often
more and prefer to dominate where possible using the
small gesture and the quiet command rather than the
expansive sweep or shouted order. Of course, any
command must be enforced by the use of appropriately
forceful punishment, when required, to complement my
other qualities. A favourite slogan for me is, "From the
strong came forth sweetness."
I am happy to receive emails from anyone interested in getting to know me, and maybe more. A word of warning: I can be strict on spelling and grammar!
(NB my strictness on spelling and grammar is a D/s game, not an automatic criticism of people, so by all means indicate if you wish to opt out from it!)
Outside of BDSM, I play guitar and double bass (and ukulele and mandolin), I read a lot and enjoy writing fiction/poetry (although most of my fiction lately has been BDSM, so when I say "outside of..." it's not strictly true!  ). I am a cricket fan (born in Yorkshire, so the White Rose is always the best!) and a follower of various other sports, including but not limited to, rugby (both codes), american football, association football, motor sports and extreme ironing. Religion-wise, I'm a somewhat heretical Christian with a heavy dose of taoism thrown in, and an ongoing interest in and appreciation of the wisdom of other belief systems.
I have a flexible attitude towards gender - although I'm usually all Man, I have no difficulty expressing my female side as well.
(Please read the cautions on
About Personal Ads before responding to
an advert. In particular, "Flat 51, 17 Holywell Hill, St Albans,
AL1 1DT" is a mailbox address used by a persistent
scam artist.)
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