Short-haired me!

IC Name: SnowdropExplodes Joined: 5 Dec 2004 Last visit: 2 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Near Tunbridge Wells, UK Age: 33 Website: http://afemanistvi...

In my personal approach to Dominance and sadism, I can be described (and often have been) as:

• Strict
• Sweet
• Caring
• Sadist
• Cruel
• Complex
• Attentive

I take all of these words to be compliments!

At the moment I am looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive woman whose need/desire for submission extends beyond the bedroom and into other parts of the relationship as well, and goes beyond a sense of playing a role (roleplay scenes are fun, but I want the relationship to be more than that!) I would probably describe this as more "slave" than "sub" but different people have different associations for those words and I won't be picky over what you want to call it! This does mean that I want to meet someone compatible not just on a kink level but on a 'nilla level as well.

Some of my favourite things to do are baking (see the personal ad title!), music-making and writing (sci-fi/fantasy, and sometimes BDSM erotica). I keep a blog at A Femanist View where I write about personal, political and other thoughts about life (which is why I don't comment much on IC any more). I like a lot of different types of music, ranging from the silly to the epic and from folk to heavy metal. I also read a lot and love learning new things.

Kinkwise, I'm pretty diverse: although I identify as orientationally "Dom" or "Master", I like to play with the submissive side of the ball as well, and no - I don't think that makes me a "switch", because my identity is Dom, switching is just something I play with (that is, I feel I never stop being a Dom, even if/when I play the role of sub for a little while). I'm also not terribly locked down to a single gender expression. Most kinks, I can get into, especially if I know my partner is also into them, and I am all but unshockable so if a potential partner wanted to try something, it's worth saying it however extreme or "out-there" it might seem.

Likewise, I'll not be shocked by any question anyone wanted to ask me (although I do reserve the right not to answer if I'm not comfortable with sharing that information yet) so feel free to memo me about whatever.

For random thoughts (often dirty! ) and glimpses into my mind, you can check out my tumblr

Yahoo messenger:snowdrop_explodes   MSN ID:snowdrop-explodes@talk21.com   Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: chestnut   Height: 5ft 10in   Weight: 18st   BMI: 35.9  

This profile was last updated on 13 Nov 11, 2:08 AM.

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