The reason I'm here.

I've known what my interests are for a very long time, long before I was able to be open about it. So when I hit 18 I foolishly dived into the deep end, it turned out it wasn't that deep and I came out with some cuts and bruises.

Thankfully they healed and I have chalked them up to experience (It was nobodies fault but my own). Since that point I'm more careful and patient.

Because of this I currently don't have plans to go to fetish clubs or munches. I see my kinky practices as a small part of me, they don't need to be anything more than a private past time. But that could all very well change.

Saying that, I have met some wonderful people. This scene is full of amazing people who I do have a lot in common with. We share similar beliefs and an open mindedness that's so refreshing in this day and age.

Photography

I'm an avid photographer and have been since I was very young. It's my form of expression, and I live for showing people how I see things.

It's exciting when I get a new idea, wondering what it will become and if I'm up to matching my vivid imagination. But what better way to express myself than to portray my darker side, my kinks and quirks through photography. I am fortunate enough to have tried my hand at some fetish work, but I am always looking to do more, I hope as I make friends and people trust me opportunities like this will arise.

I will definitely add some of my previous work here shortly.

My darker side.

If I have to classify myself and the way I play, I am a switch. What I am interested in and my "role", always depends on things around me and they fluctuate regularly, it's the way I am with everything.

On that note, I can guarantee in about 2 months this profile will be out of date in regards to the way I feel about myself.

But I don't think that's a bad thing, variety is the spice of life!

As it stands though I am on a sadistic streak, both physically and mentally. I do enjoy denying what they want so much, dangling it right in front of them but never letting it happen. Improbable tasks are a big favourite game of mine, and generally manipulating situations for my entertainment.

It's worth noting though, a lot of my enjoyment comes from knowing that they are deep down enjoying it.

A Play Partner

You've made it this far, thank you for your time.

Yes, I want to meet friends. But there has to have been an ultimate incentive for coming back on to Informed Consent, it was a desire for more experiences.

I want someone I can connect with, take the time to get to know her and be a good friend. But with that would come a deeper understanding of what makes her tick, knowing which buttons to press to get her to do what I want.

Control isn't about an order and then punishment if done wrong, fear isn't control. Not on it's own anyway, control is a combination of tweaking their desires and small rewards at the perfect moment. Pavlov's dog springs to mind.

Thanks for taking your time to read through my profile, I'm not entirely sure how I'm trying to represent myself. What I do know is I can't truly do it without a two way conversation.

If you take the time to send me a memo I will take the time to respond.

Snowblind