This is not an advert but I prefer I leave my profile published. I have no problems with people approaching me if they want to chat. It is intended to give the reader a flavour of who I am and what I like, it is not an invite to become involved in it.

I am a reasonably successful, professional male living and working in London. I have a comfortable existence and only strive to find a job that I can passionately believe in again. So anyone with bright ideas, start-ups or interesting propositions will always find my door open.

I like to think I am friendly, helpful and non-predatory. However, not everyone seems convinced. I have a very dry sense of humour (or something I use for one if you believe the cheeky pixie one) and therefore apologise in advance if anyone takes anything I say the wrong way. I unreservedly apologise for to those I offend with my misguided wit, sarcasm or abruptness. I do love to chat but am passionate about what I believe in and can get very anal about it.

I like to have fun and try not to take life too seriously. Please do not take this to mean that I am just playing or mistake me for an easy touch. I would advise you to read all of this profile before making either of these assumptions.

IC

I have been posting on the web boards prolifically and enjoy a lively discussion. Again, see above for any apology required in advance. If I do upset anyone, I would appreciate it if you contacted me in the first instance and gave me an opportunity to put it right.

I have a long list of people on IC that I would love to meet in real life and hopefully I will be around long enough for this to happen. So far, I have not been disappointed by anyone I have met and hope this will continue to be the case.

Whilst I am involved, and completely monogamous, I do still like to chat and post on the boards. If you want to ask anything, please don't be put off from sending me either a chat request, memo or MSN invite. I don't promise to be able to help but I do promise to respond to all requests I see. I particularly enjoy chatting about new ideas and concepts that push my understanding of what I like and who I am.

Fetish

I have been into Fetish most of my adult life, with a brief time out for a vanilla marriage, and have extensive experience being a sadistic dominant. My fetish is very sexually focused and mainly involves clothing, bondage and discipline. I am particularly fond of vintage clothing, french maid and school girl looks combined with restraints, rope and suspension. Add a few crops, canes and nipple clamps and I'm a very happy guy.

My preferences lean towards young, intelligent and well educated submissive girls who like to be humiliated, controlled and punished in both public and private. I set very high standards of appearance (clothing) and can be very fickle about punishing minor indiscretions. I am not interested in people who are just looking to play and I consider an active imagination and enthusiasm essential ingredients on both sides.

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