...	IC Name: SirOpenSource Joined: 28 Jun 2005 Last visit: 2 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Essex, UK Age: 48

Is writing profiles an art? Maybe it's a science I don't know but wonder how many reflect the true person behind them. For this reason that I don't believe a profile defines enough of a persons self to make a complete judgement on their suitability as a friend or partner. I would say they are useful as a starting point if you bear in mind people change from day to day. Of course the one dimensionality of a profile further limits its ability to portray ones self, that being multi-dimensional [Sorry this profile has no picture of me but I am prepared to send one to a person interested for the right reasons].

I have many interests in my life and D/s is just one, albeit an important one. Because of this I would want you to know me as indeed I you well first should you be interested.

My main interest is in the psychological side of BDSM as I believe it to be it's centrepiece and to reach into someones thoughts and desires whilst realising your own I consider is the ultimate in any D/s exchange. An interesting avenue of this is 'Hairplay'. which can evoke such powerful emotional responses when carried out well that submission is an understatement. The psychological suspense derived from Humiliation has always been something that has both fascinated and stimulated my mind also and I find it challenging as well as rewarding, however there is much to be said for gentle but firm Control.

With the correct setting the voice can be so much more powerful than any action and the choice of words and more importantly, the intonation with which they are delivered is the key to this. The submissive can create any image in their mind but the power and effect of it is to a large extend controlled by the Dominant. If you are aware of the meaning of this I would especially like to hear from you.

This and certain other areas I venture into with only the right person and am very selective making no excuses for that.

No-one knows everything so I like to see BDSM as a learning curve for me as well as the submissive. Couple that with being loving, caring and having a great capacity to listen to someones needs and what have you got to lose from enquiring about what I could do to enhance your experience?

I have always been interested in the concept of securing relationships and how honest we are about doing so. Are we really honest with ourselves about what we wish to give and how much we want to take to/from a person and is this why some relationships fail ? I have seen fools jump in with the best of intention only to hurt and be hurt. I have also seen experience not wisely used and will admit I have made mistakes myself in the past but I have learnt and continue to learn. Do you or do you just, maybe as many others continue to push on blindly?

If this profile has made you curious wondering about what makes me tick then close your eyes and listen to the linked tracks. You will then know me better.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B2LcJTqwVug

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TEaMdjHsBOY&featu...

SOS

I am co-organiser of The London Munch

And

I manage the @Titter_Ye_Not Group and am moderator for the chatroom.

I also run the @Linuxware Group

A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future and accepts you today the way you are

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