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IC : Profiles : SirOpenSource
| Profile: | SirOpenSource |
| Created on: | 28 Jun 2005 |
| Last visit: | 3 hours ago  |
| Country: | UK |
| Location: | Essex |
| Sex/gender: | Male |
| Yahoo messenger: | Ask Y! |
| AOL/AIM ID: | nope |
| MSN ID: | nope |
| Age: | 46 |
| Hair colour: | Brown |
| Eye colour: | Blue |
| Weight: | 12st |
| Height: | 6ft 1in |
| BMI: | 22.0 |
| Sex/gender seeking: | Female | | Ad title: | Let me look into your mind |
| Ad updated: | 10 days ago |
Is writing profiles an art? Maybe it's a science I don't know but wonder how many reflect the true person behind them. For this reason that I don't believe a profile defines enough of a persons self to make a complete judgement on their suitability as a friend or partner. I would say they are useful as a starting point if you bear in mind people change from day to day. Of course the one dimensionality of a profile further limits its ability to portray ones self, that being multi-dimensional. Sorry this profile has no picture of me but I am prepared to send one to a person interested for the right reasons. I have many interests in my life and D/s is just one, albeit an important one. Because of this I would want you to know me as indeed I you well first should you be interested. My main interest is in the psychological side of BDSM as I believe it to be it's centrepiece and to reach into someones thoughts and desires whilst realising your own I consider is the ultimate in any D/s exchange. An interesting avenue of this is 'Hairplay'. which can evoke such powerful emotional responses when carried out well that submission is an understatement. The psychological suspense derived from Humiliation have always been something that has both fascinated and stimulated my mind also and I find it challenging as well as rewarding, however there is much to be said for gentle but firm Control. With the correct setting the voice can be so much more powerful than any action and the choice of words and the intonation with which they are delivered is the key to this. The submissive can create any image in their mind but the power and effect of it is to a large extend controlled by the Dominant. If you are aware of the meaning of this I would like to hear from you.
This and certain other areas I venture into with only the right person and am very selective making no excuses for that.
No-one knows everything so I like to see BDSM as a learning curve for me as well as the sub. One thing I will teach you is the delights of Acacia honey popcorn that is a pleasure never to be underestimated. Couple that with being loving, caring and having a great capacity to listen to someones needs and what have you got to lose from enquiring about what I could do to enhance your experience? I have always been interested in the concept of securing relationships and how honest we are about doing so. Are we really honest with ourselves about what we wish to give and how much we want to take to/from a person and is this why some relationships fail ? I have seen fools jump in with the best of intention only to hurt and be hurt. I have also seen Experience not wisely used and will admit I have made mistakes myself in the past but I have learnt and continue to learn. Do you or do you just, maybe as many others continue to push on blindly?
One final comment on chatting on IM. If I give you my IM I will respect you by holding a conversation only with you and will not break away to chat to others. Please do the same.
SOS
I am also organiser of The London Munch
This profile was last updated on 20 Jan 10, 1:39 PM
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