IC Name: SirNightmare Joined: 4 May 2006 Last visit: 10 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: North East, UK

ALL AREAS of PLAY ARE NEGOTIABLE

The me bit, Have always been open to most things in life. So it didn't come as too much of a surprise the realisation that, I am a guide/helper for others, its one of those socio/spiritual things & not easy to explain. Well that seemed as good a place to start this as any... I have freedom to do/go as I please. I have no complications in my life,

I like to think that I have liberated myself, and can do the same for you if that's what is required, in bdsm or vanilla. Have a great understanding of the physical needs of women, my hands will enthral & excite, take you to places you may never have been before. I also have some really wonderful toys & do know how to use them for any given situation. Working with the female mind is one of the best challenges & when one gets in, so much fun to be had.

I'm not a bully, or brutish, to be dominant doesn't mean one has to be overbearing, bark orders, have strict timetables, & all the other bullshit so often encountered by the submissive in this lifestyle. Tho if needed then so be it.

Well some of my experience; in the practical areas of bdsm, I have created a few very good dungeons, & The training of two Mistress, & many subs both male & female at my Dungeon in Bristol. (a good imagination is mostly all it takes & mine is) over the years.

Love to do restrictive japanese rope bondage, not just pretty patterned rope work. The feeling of the rope & its sensual nature, I only use hemp. Also bamboo poles add much to my pleasure, & the restriction of the bondage, it's also aesthetically very pleasing.

Suspension takes time but still good fun, have some wicked kit for this. I dont just do spanking, flogging, whipping, caining etc. I do give instead, an experience of sensation play. By blending pain (only if needed not everybody is turned on by pain) & pleasure together.

Have done needle corsets, quite like Cigarette, Wax, Role-play, Electric, Violet wand & have an extensive set of attachments for it, Most kinds of play really. when it comes down to it 'most play' is sexual in nature. My forte if you like is Tantra. I can give sensual & very very erotic massage. I also balance the chakras during the massage; Giving a massage is a form of meditation for me like being in dom space. I learned the art of Tantra when traviling for 8 months in India.

Tantra & bdsm work very well together.

I'm not a sadist, though I do have an interesting twist on CP. Safety is of paramount importance for you and for me, to ensure our experience is remembered for the right reasons. Talking about what might be entered into in the way of play is always delightfull.

More easy going & laid back, like to have a laugh, talk & listen, read, play good music. Dance, 5 rythms, ecstatic, traditional etc. Walk/play in the countryside, do some yoga, Eclectic in my tastes of all things, & people. Enjoy life & people.

What am I on hear for, well to find that one who will learn form me/with me. This life is for sharing with one that will be both pupil & tutor in all things that are appropriate for this lifestyle, & in vanilla too.

Till we find each other I will entertain those that only require play; (wouldn't want get rusty) till you come my way. when we are together we can open a world of wonderful shared delights.

If you have a passion for life with an enhancing twist. Say hello to Mr J 1488

Height: 5ft 9in   Weight: 9st 10lb   BMI: 19.9  

This profile was last updated on 15 Mar 10, 7:23 PM.

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