I'm 41, but look in my early to mid 30's. Slim and toned/athletic (do lots of fitness stuff) and am 5'9"

I've got a wide range of vanilla interests but also a strong desire for kink. Initially this was mainly sub but (thanks to a previous girlfriend) found that I also enjoy the pleasure/pain given from dominating and so can now dom.

I enjoy both dom and sub roles and am happy to discuss/meet for either or both.

My ideal is to meet someone for a long term relationship with compatible vanilla and kink interests. However this is a bit of a needle in a haystack so open to anything in the meantime....

My vanilla interests include hiking, martial arts, fitness, DIY, films and voluntary work.

My kink interests are around pain and the mental aspects of that. I'm not into giving or receiving humiliation

On the sub side I've experienced waxing, ballbusting, CBT and caning to add to my love of being trampled.... As a dom I've spanked, caned and given nipple torture. Always willing to discuss/try more.....

Shergar

PS - I've also changed my profile name. It was carpetbloke (a trampling carpet) but Mistress Luci named my member Shergar at my first play party and that name spread!

PPS - My BDSM quiz results

You Scored as Switch. You know what you want but it has nothing to do with your own role in the bedroom. You have the ability to be flexible in that area

Switch 100% Masochist 82% Submissive 75% Sadist 75% Experimental 75% Bondage 75% Dominant 57% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 57% Degradation Lover 29% Vanilla 21%

Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: brown   Height: 5ft 9in   Weight: 10st 10lb   BMI: 22.0  

This profile was last updated on 22 Aug 11, 12:38 AM.

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