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IC : Profiles : Shaydes

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Profile name:Shaydes
Profile created on:23 Jul 2002
Last visit:93 minutes ago
Country:UK
Location:SE London/NW Kent
Sex/gender:male
Email:littledingle@yahoo.co.uk
Yahoo ID:i_man_enigma
MSN ID:i_man_enigma@yahoo.co.uk
Homepage:http://www.underwr...
Age:44
Hair colour:brown grey
Weight:10st 5lb
Height:5ft 4in
BMI:24.7
Ad title:Seeking an equal
Ad updated:10 days ago

(Riverside May08 #1)
Why am I here? To find the woman who wants to get as much orgasmalicious pleasure out of bondage as I do. The list of things I enjoy depends on whether I'm giving or taking. As a 'bottom' I love any form of tight restraint, along with sensory deprivation & sensual play. This includes mild CBT. As a 'top' with strong Dom tendencies then, well, it's up for discussion, naturally. I don't do sub. I can't do sub. So don't ask.

I also love the social side as well as the physical side and I can hold a decent, intelligent, witty conversation proving I am not devoid of all personality beyond my love of bondage. I'm often at munches and BDSM events so that people can meet the real me*.

I am reliable, honest and trustworthy and dislike narrow mindedness and ignorance. I work hard and have enthusiasm for everything I do, both at work and at home, and I love bondage - both giving and receiving (did I say that already? Oh well).

For restraint I love ropes, leather straps, chains, cling film, pallet wrap, scarves, bondage tape and lots more. I'm not turned on by playing doctors & nurses or housewife & TV repair man or whatever. I'm not fussed about labels (D/s, Top/bottom etc), and piss and scat are just gross - I just want good clean adrenaline-pumping pleasure and to have many wonderful experiences. It's trust and get trussed you might say.

Non-BDSM - I love films, a wide variety of music, singing, dabbling with computers and staying in and chillin'. I also run a bl**dy good karaoke. I love the sun shining through the tree tops in Autumn and taking walks in the country. I dislike people who don't indicate at roundabouts!

Oh, and I'm a Pisces - a good thinker, creative, imaginative, loyal, fun-loving, decent but evil, good at problem solving, and I lurrrrrrrrrrrrv bondage with sexy women (I'm sure I mentioned that before).

Instant Messenger is my favourite form of getting to know someone better, until we can speak on the phone or meet up. Initially though, a good old memo on here or an email would be great. I'm looking forward to it already.

I am also a regular at the LAM and SWAMP markets.

*EniGmA has been my scene name for yonks, but it wasn't available here and I refuse to be a number!

http://www.underwraps.fusiveweb.co.uk/

 
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