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The short version - I'd love for my partner to love singing, performing or acting as I do; to play card/board games as I do; to enjoy the company of friends, each other and occasionally one's self as I do and to love kink as I do. If that's enough for you get in touch and ask questions, please do. Feel free to read on though, if you have time on your hands and you're in between novels!
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Ultimately I seek a long term, life partnership deal but not a 24/7 BDSM deal. BDSM is just a part of who I am. On the way of course, I enjoy making friends and gaining more experience.
I love performing on stage (singing, acting, dancing) & have done so for many years! I love the sun shining through tree tops in Autumn & taking walks in the country.
I'm reliable, honest, trustworthy & dislike ignorance. I enjoy life, see the positive in everything & like people to feel good about themself after meeting me. I'm a people person: watching, listening, encouraging, empowering, occasionally entertaining but definitely very giving.
I'm suggestively enthusiastic. I'm not pushy but I am very keen on meeting people as soon as possible rather than spend ages over online pleasantries. For me this means as much in a 'nilla setting as a BDSM one as I want to get a complete picture of how we might be together, not just a snapsot of the 1 aspect of us that finds us here. I appreciate a certain amount of online exchange is necessary, but surely getting to know someone well includes in real life, doesn't it?
I seek a meeting of minds and shared goals. Someone who has a smile that lights up a room; a smile that has secrets and memories that are ours to share.
I want to be the one you seek when you walk into that room; the one you will smile the most for.
I seek the one who will challenge me, educate me, learn from me, have passion and devotion to me, and who will receive loyalty, commitment and honesty from me.
I want to feel alive with you, to feel the life running through you. I need to thrill you, scare you, hold you, love you, smother you and set you free. I need to be needed. You need to know I am there for you.
I need to be restrained, to be deprived of my senses and to have them heightened. I need to know nothing and yet everything.
I want someone who can hold their own, converse, be funny, honest, trustworthy, serious, polite, loyal, sexy, wild, independent, strong, respectable, slutty & to know when to be which one. I want you to be all mine as I would be yours.
I want to share thoughts, interests, everything with you. I want to know you inside & out, be complete because of you, experience a depth of life & love to make us giddy.
I'm proud of and dedicated to my work, family, friends and I would be just as dedictated to you. I want to be intoxicated by you. I want to be what you want.
All this I seek and all this I promise. I am a confusion with total clarity and vision. I guess that makes me human.
If this sounds like I know exactly what I want - I don't. I'm fluid, flexible and open and see people, not stereotypes. I'm a very outgoing, sociable sort of chap who can hold a decent, intelligent, witty conversation. I do the occasional munch and BDSM event so that people can meet the real me.
I don't do labels, but if you want some for general reference, I consider myself Dom, Top and bottom, but not sub. Most people get it, but if you're not sure, please ask. I'd rather you ask than click away and never know. I'm in touch with my inner child but I'm not into age play. If you take my real age, my mental age, the age I act, my waist size, my shoe size, my inside leg, my house number... - I probably average around 30, for what it's worth.
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