Ouch	IC Name: Scarlet_Cheex Joined: 19 Dec 2006 Last visit: 8 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Tyne & Wear, UK Age: 39

Well, bugger me....

It appears Miss Cheex has met her match.

Seeking friendship only at this present time.

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I am seeking an equal.

Actually, no.

I'm seeking someone who is just a little bit more equal than I am

This is harder to find than you may think.

I crave to be completely overpowered in a physical and psychological sense. To be restrained, terrified witless.....to feel at the complete mercy of another. It is not enough for you to proclaim yourself Dominant.....I need to know you are. I am therefore looking for someone who is genuinely Dominant, rather than someone who merely plays at it.

I enjoy the challenge of a power-struggle. My submission is something to be fought for, and won.

And you'd better win. Or you'll get a black eye.

I would say that, for me, BDSM is a deep rooted drive....it's not something which I can 'take or leave'. It is a necessity with which I cannot live without

I developed a fascination with bondage and kidnap scenarios in my early childhood, and would become deeply excited by thoughts of being made helpless and vulnerable. When puberty hit, the fantasies became much more embellished and sexual. It was as a teenager, whilst watching a 'risque' pop video, that I had my suspicions confirmed:

I was a pervert.

And I wasn't alone.

I'm not interested in a quick spank & wank. Being the gregarious outgoing type, I have ample opportunity to meet casual playmates. But that isn't what I want. What I need is to find a person with whom I can completely connect, and share the most intimate realms of my psyche. Someone who is experienced, skilled, confident and capable.

I'm not interested in married/attached gentlemen, or in those who are searching for an arrangement secondary to their vanilla life. I'm not judging you, it's just I believe I deserve no less than to come first.

When it comes to my everyday life, I'm very much in the driving seat. I'm educated, articulate and independent, with a demanding career. I'm a decision maker, ambitious, and focused. I have a wide circle of friends within both kinky and vanilla environments.

I have travelled extensively.

I play drums.

I'm glamorous.

Not that i'm adverse to lolling about in my pyjamas from time to time , but I do adore the trappings of femininity..... to dress-up, look my best, and feel good. You'll find me in dramatic vintage-style attire and corsetry most of the time.

....dark hair, dark eyes, pale skin........and red lips.

I like:

• Alpha males
• Beautiful clothing
• Ridiculous footwear
• Being silly
• Red lipstick
• Dancing
• Stimulating conversation/discussion
• Cats
• Wrists, hands and forearms
• Antique jet jewellery
• Good company
• Being in bed
• People who make me laugh
• Hats
• Travel, maps and globes.
• Being understood
• Alcohol
• Sweeties
• Learning something new
• Music
• Free thinkers
• Whitby
• Mystery, the morbid & the macabre
• Cemeteries (especially old, overgrown ones )
• Autumn

• Game players. Say what you mean, and mean what you say. I do.
• Intolerance
• Phonies
• Gangsta rap
• People with no manners
• Poor personal hygiene
• Beige (it's not a colour)
• Pink (bleuuuugh)
• People who expect everything for nothing.
• Fleeces. (Come the revolution, these abominations of style shall be distroyed).

I'm ultra feminine, but I'm no giggling girlie.

Scared?

xxx

Eye colour: Dark   Hair colour: Black   Height: 5ft 3in   Weight: 8st 7lb   BMI: 20.9  

This profile was last updated on 19 Feb 11, 4:15 PM.

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