Hi, I'm Satinio.

IC Name: Satinio Joined: 16 May 2009 Last visit: 157 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Camden, UK Age: 33

In summary...

...I find myself quite difficult to describe – even choosing from the variety of phrases and labels our kinky little world has created for us. I'm switch, bi-curious, energetic and have an insatiable appetite for fun and exploration. I've been out at clubs like TG, Subversion, Crimson and Rub since the beginning of 2009, but the fetish scene has been in me for as long as I can remember.

My look...

...aims to be sexy and androgynous. I love clothes, fashion, dressing up – especially where there is some fun to be had by subverting conventions of what boys and girls usually wear. I love the contrast of a feminine fabric against strong muscles, or using cuts and shapes of female clothes to decorate or accentuate my own body. I guess this could get misinterpreted as classic cross-dressing, but it doesn't feel like it to me because looking like a girl is not the point – I love being a guy – so I don't go for fake boobs, wigs etc. I just love finding outfits that compliment a male physique to create a completely new, provocative, androgynous appeal.

However, having said all that...

My kinks...

...do seem to include a lot more gender weirdness and in private play I sometimes go much more feminine. I adore satin, hosiery of all forms and things that alter your posture – like corsets and high heels. I love getting dressed for sex and I aim to please. But it's not all girly stuff and I'm also happy going for a nice pair of Calvins!

I've been top, bottom, dom, sub and even domme – and you know what? I can hardly say which I've enjoyed the most. I've even enjoyed being exclusively one role as much as I've enjoyed switching.

I think I've found that I only like CP as part of a more sensual scene. Pain for pain's sake doesn't do much for me. I do however LOVE bondage - both tying and being tied. I've even been to one of Esinem's shibari workshops and I'd like to explore more with these new skills.

My sexuality...

...I'd describe as MOSTLY straight(ish). By definition, I'm bi-curious and keen to explore that more, but I've just not met the right person yet I think. Meeting a sexy couple certainly appeals.

My fantasies...

... are always about being your fantasy. I get most turned on when I help someone explore their fetishes and fantasies. I like to act out a role or wear or do something to ignite your kinks within. I love to get you to confess to a secret desire and then bring it to reality for you.

Physically...

... I'm the happiest I've ever been with the skin I'm in. I'm 6 foot tall (sans-heels) and a keen swimmer, so have that classic V-shape with a strong back and core. But as I do mostly distance swimmer I'm more lean than bulky.

In normal life...

...I'm a very successful and popular guy, which is why I need to be a bit careful about publishing pix of my face here. I'm always very sociable, fashionable excitable and passionate. I love my job and life in general and feel proud of every experience I've had. I love music, gigs, clubs and shopping. I also swim miles and miles per week, snowboard whenever I can, oh and I even do Ballet and go to class once a week!

SO my search...

...Is ultimately for someone equally positive and sparky, with whom the passion is mutual. Ideally someone that like what I do, but definitely someone I can trust.

But before all that, I want to meet more and more people in the scene to hang-out, club, play and drink with. So if you recognise me (the bowler hat seems to be a consistent feature) then say hi and let's get a round in!

Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Fair   Height: 6ft   Weight: 11st 10lb   BMI: 22.1  

This profile was last updated on 22 Sep 09, 10:36 PM.

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