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IC Name: Sapientia Joined: 5 Mar 2005 Last visit: 4 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Cheshire, UK Age: 52

My interest in and experience of bdsm is long and varied. I'm interested in the effects of bdsm on our mental and emotional state, the states of mind that BDSM can evoke, and in the relationship between Top & Bottom, mentally and emotionally. I'm into personal development and emotional health and I aim always to "walk my talk"! I am a psychotherapist and counsellor and I work with many people from the scene on relationship, sexuality, and other issues. See my counsellor profile The_Counsellor

If you have an issue you wish to resolve and would like to talk to me about Counselling and Psychotherapy please follow the link to The_Counsellor profile and memo me then. Please do not use this profile for discussing your problems or issues.

I'm fascinated by how we experience our desires and how they arise. People just exploring their bdsm nature for the first time travel a very interesting journey. What excites me is to experience self accepting, imaginative, articulate, self aware, sexually adventurous people, who are able to be honest and open. BDSMers who know their own nature and fully accept themselves are very interesting.

I'm bisexual, switch and poly. My primary partner Postman is also a scene person and a bisexual switch.

I sometimes attend clubs, munches and events, round the North West. So if you want to know where I'll be, and meet me, memo me, introduce yourself, and let me know where you will be and when.

IF YOU WISH TO CONTACT ME PLEASE NOTE THE FOLLOWING:

I'M NOT ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR MORE PLAY PARTNERS;

I'M NOT LOOKING FOR ANOTHER MALE PARTNER UNLESS HE IS DOMINANT FULLY BISEXUAL AND WANTS TO PLAY WITH US AS A COUPLE (see my partner Postman) ;

I DON'T DO IM OR VAGUE MEMO EXCHANGE COS I DON'T HAVE TIME;

I ONLY PLAY WITH PEOPLE I HAVE MET AND TALKED TO, SO DON'T ASK ME TO PLAY WITH YOU UNTIL WE HAVE MET.

Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 5ft 5in  

This profile was last updated on 17 Jan 12, 12:08 AM.

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