Relaxation

IC Name: Saffire Joined: 9 Mar 2005 Last visit: 31 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Merseyside, UK

Hi. If your choice of dom is a driven macho alpha-male, look away now. But if your preference is for a softer more gentle approach to domination then we may be going places. Something that grows over time as we get to know each other and develop that all-important trust. It is after all a partnership, even if we take different roles within it. Though no longer looking, friends are of course still welcome.

While I love using the flogger and the cane as much as anyone (don't we all), if there's not plenty of pleasure as well as (some) pain, there's no point - unless you're a total sadist. So I do enjoy sensual play, whether with ropes, violet wand or just hands. Bondage and sensory deprivation are wonderful, as is hot wax, ice, etc. But if I haven't mentioned your favourite, or you don't see it on my interest tags, do not despair, that doesn't necessarily mean it's off limits.

It goes without saying that in any d/s relationship there will be mental and psychological domination, just as much fun as the physical. Whatever the rules may be, or the "training" (I know not everyone likes that term) it will always be after negotiation, and hard-limits will be respected. And it doesn't have to be 24/7 unless wanted and agreed.

I am easy to get on with. Open-minded, organised and pragmatic. Thoughtful and sensitive. Tactile and genuinely caring. Loyal and reliable. A dry sense of humour. And much younger in dress, outlook and behaviour than you probably imagine.

Bdsm is an important part of my social life, with some very good friends, and I do get out to munches and clubs in the NW. But it's not my whole life. I try to keep fit and healthy, don't smoke and enjoy good food (and wine). I love the sun, warmth and natural beauty. I grow organic vegetables. But be warned, I am not a 'rise & shine' early bird, and appreciate chilling as much as action.

My musical tastes are broad (as long as it's not rap!) but favourites are mostly from the 70s, including Genesis,Pink Floyd, Queen, Taj Mahal, Ry Cooder, Peter Green and Status Quo. Oh, and I don't watch much TV.

So what would I expect from you? Honesty, openness and (in time) respect. Sharing. Self-awareness. Age is less important than being willing to wear a corset and high heels on occasion (not usually a problem!) An open mind and willingness to communicate is essential. Plus a nice smile! The way it works, the more you are prepared to give, the greater will become the rewards.

Naturally it works both ways too; it is after all a partnership. You are part of the process and what your desires, or likes and dislikes are would be important to me.

So I very much look forward to hearing from you, and I will of course reply.

Yahoo messenger:Pyracantha3   MSN ID:Saffire   Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: gray   Height: 5ft 10in   Weight: 9st 10lb   BMI: 19.4  

This profile was last updated on 23 Jan 10, 1:34 PM.

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