I was late into the scene some five years ago, and initially assumed (wrongly) that I was submissive. I later realised that depending on who I met, I could also be dominant, and that side of me has developed to be my preference today. So if you need a label, I'm a dominant switch.

Not that I like labels. How I relate to you as a person is the important thing, whether there's "that certain something" which excites and makes me, and you, want to know more. As a person you'll find me mature but easy-going, considerate and reliable, while very definitely young in spirit and mind. Loyal with the right person. Not one for idle chatter, and sometimes a bit serious (yes, nobody's perfect) but with a dry sense of humour. Equally, not a shy retiring sort - that's not possible with visible body-jewellery! A genuine nice guy, I'm told - that is until I have a flogger or cane in my hand!

I really value getting to know a play-partner over time, and if it leads to a relationship, all well and good. Even if it doesn't, you're still hopefully a friend. I do mix the physical, the sensual and the control aspects so both partners are happy, but especially enjoy all bondage and sensual play. The interests at the bottom of the page are only a guide; if something's not there it doesn't necessarily mean it's off-limits.

Bdsm is an important part of my social life, and I do get out to munches and clubs in the NW. I enjoy fetish dress, and trying new things. But it's not my whole life: I try to keep healthy and fit, enjoy good food, don't smoke, like 70s and 80s music, am partial to blues, love sun, warmth and wine, grow vegetables and appreciate just chilling out. And, if its important, my star sign is Taurus.

That's it for starters. Just send a memo if you want to know more. Whether you are new or experienced doesn't matter. There are some great people around in the scene, and I have made new friends here - maybe you will be another.