IC Name: RoseTorn Joined: 24 Jan 2002 Last visit: 285 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: London, UK Age: 47

Stefan and Helena (also occasionally known as Sir Stephen and His dark lady or Rose and Thorn - rose_og_torn, being the Danish version of that) are an irritatingly happily married and, in most ways, very ordinary couple with a serious predeliction for BDSM.

In the context of their primary relationship, he's the one in charge 80% of the time.

He's mostly a dominant sadist and mostly straight. She's mostly not. She's a thoroughgoing sadomasochistic switch with a serious weakness for inflicting pain on short-ish blue-eyed blondes.

They're 50 and 40 years of age respectively. They're greatly into good food and wine (as a result of which, inevitably, neither is quite as thin or as toned as they'd really like to be). He prefers a good Margaux. She's keen on indecently oaky West Australian chardonnays. They're fond of champagne and both fairly accomplished cooks.

They like to travel and have a particular fondness for France, North Wales, Manchester and New York. She also loves Italy and Hong Kong. They both love his home city of Copenhagen. And they think Brussels is under-rated. So there.

Books are another major weakness - they've just had to rent a storage unit to contain the overspill...

He's grey-haired and blue-eyed, about 5' 11" and works in IT; she's a 5' 4" brunette with dark greeny grey eyes who works in business publishing.

Helena loves, and lives in, corsets and is a hopeless shoe addict. (Not even recovering.)

Because of mutual workaholism combined with fortnightly family committments, they haven't been out to munches or clubs anywhere near as often as they would have liked over the eight years they've been living together. So their circle of friends in the BDSM community is fairly small. In other words, they really should get out more. But that's something they're about to try and address...

They would relish hearing from any intelligent masochistic young lady with a sense of humour, whether it's for mutual fun and generous lashings or just to share a drink and a chat. London, South-Eastern, Manchester and Cheshire-based like-minded souls are all welcome to drop them a line.

Yahoo messenger:rose_og_torn   Eye colour: Green   Hair colour: Dark Brown   Height: 5ft 4in   Weight: 10st   BMI: 23.8  

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