Not looking for a permanent partner. I gave up on that a long time ago when I realised that I was never going to be a dom. I'm too soft hearted for that and at 45, I'm not likely to change that now. That's not to say that I can't be devious, evil, imaginative and creative in providing for the right person.

I'm looking for somebody, maybe new to the scene, who enjoys bondage and is looking for somebody who is trustworthy enough to provide the restraint that she desires, or a novice who has little experience but is curious to find out what she enjoys.

I have enough equipment to stock a reasonable size dungeon, for anybody who wants to try something other than ropes. Straitjackets are a favourite of mine, together with armbinders. There is nothing I like more than than a helpless woman properly restrained and gagged.

I've been away from the local BDSM scene for a few years, but have recently also been trying my hand a some amateur photography. Anyone who has an account with yahoo's Flickr site can find my work, and more of what I have to offer. Just do a search for LMJ 100 or follow the link http://www.flickr.com/people/93425102@N00/

I've also included some of my work in Informed Consents own Flickr group. The fetish photo album http://www.flickr.com/groups/fpa/

I am 45, single, and live/work in South East Wales. Sorry, but chat rooms etc are beyond me although I can manage e-mail without too much trouble. I still prefer chatting on the phone with people that I get on with.

Hair colour: Black   Height: 5ft 10in  

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