April 2006: Bukkake party-the aftermath?.

IC Name: Rhoobarb Joined: 4 May 2000 Last visit: 7 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Central Scotland, UK Age: 54

About me - I'm overdependent, over critical and overweight. I'm fiercely independent, judgemental, snobbish, open minded, reserved, prudish, generous, mean spirited, clingy and emotionally stunted. I dress like a scruff and have no fashion sense. I'm jealous and yet love to have another woman around (as long as I like her!) Who'd have me?!?!

Luckily for me Bohnanza seems to be able to overlook most of these faults. I'm very grateful that he does.

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About him - Bohnanza can be infuriating, irritating and annoying. He is pedantic and rude. He does what he wants, when he wants and I choose to accept it, or not. He's been told (not by me, oh no, definitely not by me!) he isn't Dominant, just a sadist. Whatever it is about him, I think we fit quite well. I'm his submissive - whenever he wants me to be.

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My Network - My network is a collection of some of the people I have met in real life, not everyone is on there. Some I know well, others I have met and spoken to once, most are somewhere in between. Being on my network says nothing about how I feel about someone. All I am vouching for is that I have met each of them to speak to, and when I did, they were a real life living breathing person.

If you've met me, and want to add me, then please do so.

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In a Couple - I'm in a long term relationship with Bohnanza. We've been together since 2000 when I first got into this BDSM lark, and have now moved into the same house together. We are both happy to play with other people at clubs or parties. We travel to BDSM/fetish events in both Scotland and England. It is pretty much our main social life - going to munches and clubs and maintaining friendships with some of the wonderful people we've met through this.

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Play - I'd like to find a top or dominant to play with me occasionally at clubs or parties. For details, go here. Please note - I'm NOT looking for a sub. If I ask you if you'd like to play with me, I do mean it. It's probably taken me a lot of effort to get round to asking, there are only a few people I feel comfortable enough with to ask. But if I do ask, then I'm not going to keep asking, I'll assume you now know and I'll accept that you might not be interested.

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Lifestyle - I don't smoke. Most of the time I drink seldom and not much. Every now and again I drink too much, throw all my clothes off and snog everyone in the room... or something like that! I mostly can't be bothered with make-up, although I try (and end up looking somewhat panda-ish) sometimes, and I don't spend a fortune on hairdressers. I do like to dress up when we go to a club. I eat widely (and far too much) and enjoy going out for a meal with friends. I've also found I get lots of pleasure from having people round for dinner, drinks, chat, parties, sploshing, barbecues, girlie nights etc. I love feeding people!

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Books - I read. I read voraciously and widely, and although I tend to prefer fantasy type books I'll read almost anything, except horror. I read in bed, at work, in the bath, in front of the television and when travelling. I can read more than one book at once without getting the stories mixed up ~ WOW! I started a list of some of my books (about a third of them, I reckon) here. I have far too many books and am gradually reducing the number of them in our house by reading them and passing them on. It's going to take a long long long time

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I like - Punctuality - Confidence - Large hands on men - Red hair on women - Tall men - Plump curvy women - Visible affection - Spontaneity - Good timekeeping - People who can make me laugh - Kissing! I don't get enough of it. - Sex - Good food -

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I dislike - Poor personal hygiene - Smoking - Excessive drinking (unless it's me!) - People who eat with their mouth open - Tailgating - Rudeness - Bullying - Beetroot - Housework - Being added to email forwarding lists

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Why you should go to a munch... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/281292/1#...

What IC is for... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/291446/6#...

Useful website http://gethuman.com/numbers/uk

Eye colour: grey   Hair colour: dyed   Height: 5ft 3in  

This profile was last updated on 26 Jan 12, 12:00 PM.

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