I am a single, intelligent, sane, independent, imaginative and very inquisitive by nature male 42 years old a good sense of humour. I'm a quiet, deep, shy and intensely private person. Easy to get to know and understand, although I allow only a special few into my inner world. I do not have a picture on a public website site, but I am happy to send one when I know the person I am chatting with.

I am very instinctive and intuitive about people. Passionate about life and people around me. Intensely caring, competent, determined, honest, loyal, proud, and reliable person. I am very direct with my opinions which can offend people some times.

I devote myself totally to people I love and care about and love the same response back. My strongest virtue is my ability to see any matter from the viewpoint of those I am dealing with, and I am a good communicator and listener.

Travel is something I love and I have travelled a great deal with work and personal travel. I like and listen to all different types of music dependant what my mood is. During the weekends I enjoy going cycling and walking in and around the UK. There is nothing better after spending a day out then sitting in a pub with an open fire, enjoying good food and wine. I drink socially but don't smoke and don't do drugs.

I enjoy all aspects of BDSM & role play, from soft to extreme play. I have a safe, sane and consensual outlook on everything I do. Bondage is some thing I also like to do and want to learn a lot more about Japanese Rope Bondage.

I am looking for: Looks & weight are not important to me. I am more interested in the person than what they look like. To learn how you tick and which buttons to press to get the results I like to get. You will be in control of yourself and your life. Trust has to be the basis of any relationship. I will openly admit I do have a fetish for ladies with red hair. Meeting someone is about learning about each other and enjoying each others company, someone who enjoys vanilla life as well as BDSM lifestyle.

On the vanilla side I enjoy: going to the theatre, films, reading, restaurants, travelling, and being adventurous. You will be open-minded, but firm, and know what you want. I will want to spend lot of time prior to any meeting finding out about you. But we will meet; I am not simply looking for online fun. Real life is such much more enjoyable to me. Could it be you? Do you desire a long term, monogamous relationship, with someone who is both loving and assertive?

Things I do not like: Well that is pretty simple list to be honest. Rude people who only look at what someone looks like. People who can't be bothered to return a simple memo, or e-mail message even if it to say thanks, but no thanks. Drivers who think they own the middle lane of the motorway, when there is no- one in the inner lane.

Be well take care.

Remm

MSN ID:remm_100@hotmail.com   Hair colour: Hazel  

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