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IC Name: Red_Spark Joined: 5 Jan 2007 Last visit: 13 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Leicester, UK Age: 32

Very happy with my slave and partner boy4steel.

We are in an exclusive relationship so I'm not looking for other people to play with. Having said that, a sub (male, female or TG) to maid for us would be most welcome. Either to get a kick out of the act of domestic service, or I will offer non-sexual sadistic play in return.

I enjoy going out to munches and clubs, but haven't done this for a few years now – mainly because I'm no longer 'looking' (one of my previous motivators) and also because I enjoy staying at home with my slave thoroughly restrained and/or caged.

I haven't lost my enthusiasm for meeting people and making friends, so feel free to say hi if you do see us out and about anywhere.

We are 24/7 Owner/slave, with more elements of D/s and BD than of SM. We enjoy the physical side of kink, but my slave is not a masochist. Although he obviously has to take pain if I wish it, we usually prefer to focus on bondage and restraint/restriction of various kinds.

We like using irons and chains (although rope has its uses), rubber, hoods, sensory deprivation, watersports, gags, caging and breath play. Also anal play, including fisting, when health considerations allow. Things I haven't tried yet but would really love to try include strap-ons, vac beds, e-stim and prostate milking.

Although we enjoy vanilla aspects of life together, our aim is for my slave to eventually be treated strictly at all times except where that would impinge on work or family relationships. This does not mean giving up vanilla life or activities though, and I think we are both realistic about how far we can push things. But we have our whole lives ahead of us so who knows what kind of life we'll be leading by the age of 70!

We are both quite busy people and I am not keen on anything that impedes the practical goals that we are trying to achieve. I don't see D/s as separate from the rest of life, but very much as a state of mind rather than about chains etc.

Love and trust, in all aspects of a relationship, is the foundation on which everything else is built, so it's vital to make sure that's good and secure before trying to build the rest of your castle (complete with dungeons of course!).

I'm a sadist but don't indulge that often these days as I can live without it. I particularly enjoy caning, flogging, scratching, temperature play and… basically any method of inflicting pain. Things I'd like to try but never have include branding and using a single-tail. I also enjoy spanking but see that as more sensual and/or playful rather than sadistic.

My vanilla interests include art (doing and looking at) and music (play the piano, guitar, and sing – quite badly – and enjoy listening to rock, metal, goth, industrial, classical, electronica, and some blues, punk, folk, pop and dance.)

I like Lego, Jaffa cakes, black, red, purple, corsets, PVC, apple crumble and custard, Scalextric, classic British motorbikes, exercise, the open air, the country, scenery, the seaside, dancing, sunsets, and most of all… spending time with my slave.

Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Dark brown   Height: 5ft 3in   Weight: 8st 2lb   BMI: 20.0  

This profile was last updated on 18 May 11, 12:40 AM.

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