Well hello and welcome 
Hopefully my new contact details have made their way to those that needed to be updated? If not, my apologies to those who have stayed in contact and have found my being neglectful by not remembering to pass them on. I am involved in a long-term Monogamous relationship
Devil May Care
My lover, my best friend, my partner, my tormentor, wonderful father to my child, who just happens to be Dominant. We have been together for a few years now in a monogamous relationship. We do not discuss our private life or activities with anyone. We are discreet.
D/s is only a very small part of our lives.
98% of BDSM doesn't appeal, the 2% that does, well, 'Tis a secret!'
My goodness, I do have my own opinions!!!
After having been referred to as sanctimonious by a fool who can't deal with my having differing opinions to their own I have to say that yes I do speak my mind and like others have my own opinions, that's life deal with it, but unlike a tedious few, I don't make a habit of hijacking people's weblogs to make childish comments. Honestly there are some stupid cunts out there. YAWN!
Currently enjoying...
I mention this link as it always makes me chuckle. Very clever! I mentioned it in a recent blog.
Ravel- Bolero
Beethoven- Symphony # 9 On a more personal level.
Something of a Hippy at heart. As a child I grew up in a family/household very much into organcic/free range food, Chinese medicine and recycling before it became 'Trendy' YAWN!
I have something of a quirky, and sometimes, dark sense of humour.
I am drawn to witty people, but not to those who are blatantly sarcastic.
I do like people in general, but absolutely despise those who treat any and all with contempt because of their differing opinions, religions, beliefs etc...
I am really quite passionate, about things that appeal and those which don't.
Things which please me. Wining, dining, sketching, music, watching decent films ( these are mentioned further down my profile ) Travels to exotic places/locations, Museums, galleries.
Spiritual, but not religous.
I have my own sense of style and don't stick with one look.
I like a little of everything, but do tend to think that when it comes to showing flesh, less can most definitely be more! Anticipation, a wonderful word, and such a delicous feeling!
And, no. I am not really nearly 25 stone or 4 foot tall...short? I just got tired of people approaching me because I look a certain way. My intentions on joining this site were never to find a 'Quick Fuck' I was looking for something more than that! Even though many might see me as being something of a light weight when it comes to BDSM!My want for Anonymity.
I don't do pohotographs. You get to see what I look like through meeting me.
I have been dragged into situations in the past because of my connections but 'intend' on suffering from selective hearing loss when the gossips start.
I prefer to make up my own mind about people. I actually 'like' being an independent thinker. Thank you 
'Most' of the people we know via IC and similiar are 'off scene' scene folk so to speak. We socialise in real time and often my scene pals are found mingling with family and vanilla friends. We exsist as friends outside the munches/clubs/LFF/BBB etc.Despite that last sentence don't be shy about saying hello.
I am more than happy to chat with people of all persuasions.
Not sure if I am a person to give out much valuable advice? But I tend to get approached quite a bit by nervous newbies. I can do common sense to a degree if you just want to say hello and dip your toes in Online before you enter the scary Real Life stuff!  Things that Irk me.
People who say things 'just' for the shock factor or to cause upset. Is tedious beyond words! Voice your opinions by all means, nothing at all wrong with that.
But those who seek out people's blogs for no other reason than to make offensive remarks, if you were to deal with the fact that people 'will' have differing views to you, you would be so much happier!
The smell of smokers. That awful nicotine smell that penetrates, skin, hair, clothes, breath is a complete turn off.
Litter bugs!For goodness sake find a damn bin!
Those dreadful little cliques you get on the scene that congregate at munches. Who spread gossip like muck and make asinine comments about folk who don't always deserve it.
Those tiresome Pedantics who insist on correcting peeples spelleng misteaks and correcteng there grammur etc. I eat, drink and sleep music!
I have a somewhat varied taste when it comes to music!
(Royksopp) Royksopp's Big Night Out
How you Remind Me
(Muse) Hysteria
Bliss
(Medieval Babes) Kinderly
Ecci Mundi Gaudium
(Steeleye Span) Gaudete
(Vast) Lost
Touched
( The Stranglers)Golden Brown
( Vangelis )The Long March
(Portishead) Glory Box
Sour Times
(Marilyn Manson)Beautiful People
Personal Jesus
(Lucia Popp) Fauré Requiem Op.48 Pie Jesu
Laudate Dominum Mozart
(GoldFrapp) Train
Strict Machine
(Goldfrapp Vs Marilyn Manson)This Is the new shit
(Nelly Furtado)Explode
Say It Right
(Dephece Mode) John The Revelator
Walking In My Shoes
One Caress
(Amon Tobin) Rosies Bridge
(Loreena Mckennit)
The Mystics Dream The Gates Of Istanbul
(Massive Attack )
Karamacoma
TearDrop
(Siouxsie And The Banshees)
Kiss Them For Me
Peek -A -Boo
(Rammstein)
Sonne
Links 2,3,4
(Sneaker pimps)
Spin Spin Sugar
6 Underground How Do
(New Young Pony Club)
Ice Cream
(Fauré Requiem)
In Paradisum
(Brian Eno)
An Ending
(QOTSA)No One Knows
God Is In The radio
(Bjork) Earth Intruders
All Is full Of love
(Janes Addiciton )
Just Because
Price I Pay
(Clannad)Theme From Harry's Game
Now Is here
(System Of A down)Chop Suey
Toxicity
(The Killers)When You Were Young
Read My Mind
(Lacuna Coil)Enjoy The Silence
To The Edge
( All About Eve)Every angel
Martha's Harbour
(Rob Zombie)Dragula
Pussy Liquor
( Faun ) Da Que Deus
Egil Saga
(Dave Gahan)Bottle Living
Dirty Sticky Floors
(Kasabian)Empire
Shoot The Runner
( Basement Jaxx)RENDEZ VOUS
Do your thing
Think that will do, you get the general idea!  Favoured films.
Bladerunner
Excalibur
RazorBladeSmile
A Clockwork Orange
One Flew Over The Cuckoos Nest
The Crow
Blade Trilogy
The Company Of Wolves
House Of A Thousand Corpses
UnderWorld
In The Name Of The Rose
Once Were Warriors
The Rocky Horror Picture Show
This Is Spinal Tap
Brotherhood Of The Wolf
Sin City
Amadeus
Donnie Darko
Ginger Snaps Trilogy
Spirited Away
Queen Of The Damned
Like Water For Chocolate
Two Mules For Sister Sarah
Hot Fuzz
The Magic Toyshop
City Of God
Fear And Loathing In Las Vegas
Brimstone And Treacle My time on IC.
My schedule at work changes constantly as does my time on IC.
So if you don't see me on here for a while be assured all is well. As I hope they are for you?
Kind regards,
RastaPasta
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