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IC : Profiles : QuietlyComfortable
| Profile: | QuietlyComfortable |
| Created on: | 25 Mar 2009 |
| Last visit: | 3 days ago |
| Country: | UK |
| Location: | Cambridge/Bedford |
| Sex/gender: | Female |
| Age: | 22 |
| Sex/gender seeking: | Male | | Ad title: | Not looking - but possibly hoping : ) |
| Ad updated: | 34 days ago |
I am generally rubbish at memos. I have a tendency to read memos when they arrive (because lord knows I can't ignore anything that is both red and flashing), but I will often leave them a day or two to reply once I have a had time to muse over something particularly witty to say. The flaw in this plan arises when I become busy for 7 days and they all get deleted in the meantime. I always endeavour to reply to all memos, so if you think you are justified in doing so - please try again!
I do not play with over 30s. Nor do I have any other kind of sexual contact with them. Please do not take this as a personal insult. I have many good reasons for this and I am more than happy to discuss them with you, but be warned - you are unlikely to change my mind.
I also do not play with people I do not trust. This may sound like a very obvious statement, but the point I am making here is that while I am no stranger to casual play/sex in the sense that it is outside of a conventional relationship, in each of these cases I have known the people involved for many months or years beforehand. If you *really* want to get into my pants - expect the longhaul.
Which leads to me say... Yes, I am single, and I would like, in theory, to find someone to have a relationship with. That being said, I think it is unrealistic to expect to find what I am looking for on IC. I would like to meet someone who shares my interests in the vanilla world and is local to me - I suspect that this is more likely to happen elsewhere. In the meantime, I am very happy to browse the boards, make friends and share a joke or two.
So! Enough of the disclaimers! Who am I?Kink:
(In a sliding scale from *really want* to *hard limits*) - I like bondage and restraint. I like force and I like pain. I like the kind of pain that makes my skin tingle and reminds me later when I have a hot shower. I am not interested in the kind of pain that is meant as a "challenge" - something that is merely to be endured rather than enjoyed is not for me.
I am aware that relationships I have had in the past were D/s, but they were never intentionally so. I am not against BDSM outside of the bedroom, but I think it is something that grows naturally with time and should not be forced, or even expected. - I have never experienced either, but I am not opposed to the idea of group sex/play or polyamorous relationships.
I have used vibrators, handcuffs and such like, but I much prefer the rawness of "empty hand" play. Elaborate contraptions seem contrived and have never really appealed to me, although I am always willing for someone to change my mind! Likewise, I have never fantisised about role-play or fetish dress. This does not mean it wouldn't be something I wouldn't be willing to try for the right person. - I've never had a partner who has ever shown an interest in ropework and I have never had any urge to try it. However, I am always open to new experiences.
I am very careful about the more psychological side to BDSM. For example, I have had uncomfortable experiences with orgasm control but it has not put me off for life. Also, I'm a little prudish about my anus. I couldn't say why. - Things I won't touch with a barge pole involve scat, bestiality and watersports.
Other: - I am currently a science student but I would like to move into outreach when I graduate.
I love the pub. I would live there if they'd let me. I'm not big on drinking, I just like the atmosphere. I would much rather have a pint or two with close friends than... well, pretty much anything else. However, occasionally the urge to boogie does take hold and I can stay out all night. - I keep busy. I'm enjoying the student lifestyle and have always had to restrain myself from taking too much on. I suspect that this will continue long after I have graduated and I already have my eye on a couple of evening classes...
My friends mean the world to me. I am very lucky to have a reasonably-sized group of very close friends. I think part of the reason why I am so willing to hold out for a good relationship is because I get so much of what I need from them - love, support, loyalty and a sharp kick up the butt when it's needed! - Last spring I finally kicked a several year-long bout of depression and I am (and have been ever since) very happy, confident and comfortable with every aspect of my life. (Which is a bold claim, but one I am proud to make).
PS - ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER - We're all human and much (if not all) of this information is subject to change over time  This profile was last updated on 1 Mar 10, 12:04 PM
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