Hummingbird

IC Name: Pole_Slut Joined: 25 Sep 2006 Last visit: Online now Sex/gender: Female Location: Bath, UK Age: 38

Not looking at this moment in time for a realtionship, life is a little too busy atm to be adding to it, so please NO memo's that you're the one for me. Thank you.

My idea of DOMS;

Delayed, Onset, Muscle, Soreness.

Back to catch up with friends, after being single for over a year and feeling like the batteries are well charged then if it happened to be I came across someone I clicked with then why not, whats meant to be will happen, why try and fight it.

However for those activly seeking a submissive, I'd think wisely before you send me a memo, Im far from your yes sir, no sir three bags full sir. I am however, naturally thoughtful in putting others first, even though I have tried to argue with myself that this year I need to think more of me, myself and I before other's, likely hood of this happening is zilch, probaly more chance of platting snot, but the thought is there, so it's a start.

I have a natural submissive tendancy, but unfortunatly to all those dickhead doms out there, that didnt read DOORMAT. I have a busy life outside kink, my two loves Dexter my Cairn and my pole, whilst a partner will be up there with those two, you also need to earn that place, and boy you will earn it, I have met some dicks in my time and with age it has become incredibly easy to sniff you out. Not doing a very good job selling myself here am I? I can guarantee what you see on the tin is what you get inside, whilst I would respect a Dominant outside of the bedroom, that is it, as mentioned I have a natural caring side to other's, but my submissive tendancies do lie with in the bedroom, I adore being controlled and having my daily control of life took away whilst playing the perfect slut.

If you're looking for that perfect slave to live in a cage, to do as you say not as you do, then move on, I can guarantee you, I'll ruin you as a dom. I am a person an equal that is happy to play a role whilst we fuck or lead upto fucking, that will show you the upost respect if and when we were out on anything scene related. I have tried to live the what I thought would of been a dream come true 24/7 sub, and whilst we spent 3 happy yrs together, it was plain to see I was more dominant outside the bedroom, this I saw didnt make him happy and we parted on good terms and are still very much friends, yes friends, NOT fuck buddies, friends.

So there you go that's me, still want to send that memo?

ETA,

I think it's best also to add a little more about myself here to save time for us both,

I have no desire to be shared or share someone or even join some people.

I like my men some yrs older than me, obviously not coffin dodgers, and no need for a pupped fucktoy either.

Oh, and Im a happy smoker, Im a big girl knowing my risks, I don't need someone rattling on about it each day to me.

Just because I know what I want in life and have a brain to think for myself does not make me any less of a person, in fact more so of one, Im a busy lady that grafts bloody hard, that's very strong minded, I can think for myself, Im a handful, but Ive bet you've held worse things in your hands.

As mentioned, I graft hard and sometimes seven days a week, so those weeks I have the weekends for myself, I not only value them but cherish them. I've done my motherhood bit and have no desire in my spare time helping in bringing someone else's children up.

Which also bring me to the point, that I also prefferably dont want to be travelling from one end of the country to the other to maintain a realtionship.

If you send me a one liner and no information in your profile, do you really expect me to send you a reply??? I mean I understand having no picture up sometimes due to your life away from here, but, a "I thought hard bout sending you a memo, so hello." Wont be getting a memo back, I dont expect your life story, however, abit more thought would certainly deserve a reply, even if it is a no thank you.

Also, I'm a real person, not someone that hides and wanks behind a screen, ok I enjoy wanking, however, Im not here for online chat about your fantasy, I'm sure someone out there is though, and wouldn't mind pleasing you in that way, myself, no thank you, I'd prefer the real mccoy. If you have no desire to get to know me and my mind, then we will not make any connection at all, I love how the mind works, it intrigues me and when someone can climb on in there for all good purposes it's hot and horny as hell. So please don't bore me with what's probably already been said to me.

And now for asking the earth, I love sex and when in a realtionship, I like lots of it, if "you" don't, then you are NOT for "me!" But just as equally, just because of my frankness and openess, it does NOT mean Im here for one night stands of sex or play, I personally dont see the fun in that for "me" I would much prefer something that grows with time.

Hope all this helps to build a better picture of me and my needs.

Have a nice day now

Eye colour: green   Hair colour: red   Height: 5ft 3in   Weight: 9st   BMI: 22.1  

This profile was last updated on 3 Apr 12, 3:38 PM.

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