New Look Nyx

IC Name: Phoenyx Joined: 22 Jun 2007 Last visit: 2 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: London, UK Age: 29

I will allow you to perv my photos for a while first if you must.

finished? OK then:

Hi- I'm Nyx.

I don't chat to or meet up with people from online, so if you want to meet me, it's better just to catch me at a munch. Also I should mention I only check this profile about once a month at most so if you want to get in touch with me quickly, its best to grab me on fetlife- look for Nyxxx

Anyway; that aside, this is in fact an IC profile, and if you have clicked on my name I assume it is because you are trying to find out a little bit about me and my kinks. So in the nature of my preference for a sexy and well ordered bullet pointed list, the rest of this profile will continue as such.

First and most importantly;

A list of non-negotiable facts about me:

* I'm Queer. My attraction and sexuality is very fluid. I am not just a 'greedy slut' that's offensive and would suggest I am indiscriminate which I am not. I am just someone that is lucky enough to have had relationships with men, women, and trans/queer folk and I don't have a prefence for which way my life will go in the future.

* I'm a switch. This will never change. I commit fully to which ever role/dynamic I am in at a specific time, and I just react instinctually to the chemistry between me and the other person as to which way the play is going to be directed. But there seems to be a trend/preference with different genders.

KINKY STUFF

I like the sort of stuff that 'nice girls' like myself are not supposed to. Safe to say, I like violent, messy, 'I can't believe she did that' kind of stuff. Formal 'old school' BDSM tends to bore the shite out of me, I respect it in other people's lives but it's just not for me. Also I am just not enough of a masochist to enjoy pain enough if that is the only thing happening. Pain has to be contextual, and normally that context has to be pretty dark.

The big ones for me as a sub/bottom are D/lg play, rape play and ultra violence. Although I do have experienced being a collared sub, and love developing an intense D/s relationship with someone, who can control me and overpower me with just a couple of quiet words.

As a Top I love getting someone right to their breaking point and then laughing (and getting hugely aroused) whilst they cry. I do have a 'dimmer switch' and love to turn down the violence and make it all more sensual and sexual sometimes, but only when I really fancy someone, and we are playing in private. Anyone into blood/vampire play gets my attention straight away.

I have recently been exploring formal D/s as a Dominant, and with the right person, I get an overwhelming desire to posess and control them. Without violence. Just obedience. Real submission. Doormats need not apply. I find submission exciting only when it is a challenge for that person, and yet they still choose to do it.

Extraneous other stuff:

* I am obssesed with films and books.

* Whilst BDSM is a large part of my life, it will never be everything.

* I am a complete walking contradiction most of the time. I am very loud and brash in public, but my home life is very quiet and calm.

*I am a really jumpy person so I don't like people touching me when I don't know who it is. please approach me from the front, and don't try and grab me before I know who it is.

* I am an awesome hairdresser. Photos and testimonials of my work available on request. Get in touch if you want some work doing.

* Oh and I run Surrender. It's an awesome London based pansexual fetish club. come come come.

NYXISMS:

oooh Shiny!

I am not your soul mate... but I would like to be your mate with soul.

It's no fun if they're not crying.

I am just adding a bit of sparkle and drama.

I think I might ACTUALLY be a Vampire.

Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Black   Height: 5ft 7in  

This profile was last updated on 6 Feb 12, 1:16 AM.

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