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IC : Profiles : PhoenixAmber
| Profile: | PhoenixAmber |
| Created on: | 23 Nov 2007 |
| Last visit: | 28 hours ago  |
| Country: | UK |
| Location: | York |
| Sex/gender: | Female |
| MSN ID: | gem_diva_owen@hotmail.com |
| Homepage: | http://mydungeonsp... |
| Age: | 27 |
| Hair colour: | Dark Brown |
| Eye colour: | hazel |
| Weight: | 10st 10lb |
| Height: | 5ft 6in |
| BMI: | 24.0 |
I don't want to define myself; I have found that it is an impossible task. I am evolving. Who I am and where I feel I should be, will change more often than I can update this page.
There are facts that are not likely to change and core beliefs that I hold about myself. I will write those.
I have no need for this to be an advert of my play practices. Those can be found being shown off in clubs often enough.
The facts.
I am a happily married woman with a second relationship which is based upon, but not solely for, lifestyle. The two men in my life are my Husband , and the wonderful Eric . I am the 'poly' of our three. To the world outside my poly does not shout, it isn't a badge of honor; it simply is what works and is worked at in my life.
I am also the girl in the York munch management team and can be found regularly at lots of events up and down the country.
This is me!
So what are these core beliefs? I am strong, determined, driven, ambitious and independent at the core. I have a small circle of friends but I am fiercely loyal to those who get close to me. Deep down I'm quite sensitive. I like to find a place, with people, in a group, in life.
I love people, the most amazing thing is that connection between people, whether it is respect, interest, attraction. The pull to each other that makes one person stand out has always intrigued me. I never had a wish list for a partner because that core pull, that connection, is not something you can put in a checklist.
I am adventurous and love experiences, I have little fear of racing into the unknown for new experiences, this has grown with me and become core. I love knowledge.
A bit of Kink
I said this is not an advert but it is a kink website so a little overview is in order.
I love rope, the act of being tied, in the sensory experience of bondage, rope is my companion of choice, along with a rigger who can see it as an art even when it's messy.
I don't need D/s but I recognize a certain 1950's mindset in myself. I have no desire to be micro-managed but I will defer to an authority that I respect without it ever being requested.
I like play to be 'joined up', the holy trilogy of mind, body and kit, in that order, makes for a great experience. It's not all about kit, it's about connection. Every Dom I know and respect can play easily without kit.
I'm on the masochistic end of the scale. I will try anything once with the right person. I also love contact, touch is important to me, pain and sensual touch work amazingly well.
and finally
I love this lifestyle, this is my fairytale. I know how lucky I am to have had the introduction that I have and to share it with some of the most beautiful people that I have ever met. I am grateful for them and everything they have taught me.
It's worth remembering that the screw ups, the arguments, the jealous moments or feelings of rejection, teach us just as much if not more than the height of masochistic surrender, the moment of trust, the uncontrollable tears. True friendship is precious.
This profile was last updated on 4 Jan 10, 5:52 PM
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