26 Dec 2011

IC Name: Outside_Looking_In Joined: 23 Dec 2011 Last visit: 109 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: NN (Northampton), UK Age: 26

How I hate writing profile pages, please bear with me as I try to produce something vaguely coherent!

Me, as a homosapien - I'm 26, 6'3", and eat more than I should. I'd rate myself mmmm probably 5/10, average, I'm not a Casanova, nor do I profess or wish to be!

Me, actually me - Oh my days how exciting is bdsm? I love it. I love almost all of it. I can't think about much else. 2 things excite me significantly more than anything else in my life; clipping the apex on the limit of grip and the exquisite eroticism of the D/s dynamic.

I'm *almost* living the dream with a gorgeous lovely wife, a I-think-its-working-ok-actually business, nice house, shiny car and generally nothing to be grumpy about (though I have been known to try!). The *almost* bit? My wife is a "nilla" as you experienced types cutely put it. I am slowly realising I'm really not a "nilla", I may in fact be a deviant perv :-/ I married her knowing this and knowing even if I was 'doomed' to missionary once a week it would be worth it. Nothing has changed, but you can't fault a man for trying to make life perfect! I think I realised I am definitely not "nilla" when I realised it was the kinky play I enjoyed, looked forward to, thought about, rather than the sex/orgasm (which is also fun, don't get me wrong)! She knows I'm a perv, but I don't think she quite understands how much of a perv, bless her!

I'm on here to learn, make friends, learn, maybe sound out a few ideas, learn, and learn. I'm not looking for play or romance or any of that jazz, rather I'm hoping to persuade wifey of the delights of being a deviant perv through gentle exposure to some of the aspects of bdsm in the hope we will find one that is mutually agreeable. I'm hoping the combined experience of IC is the perfect tool for such an adventure.

I/We haven't done much more than the romantic soft bondage and some playful cropping/spanking so I don't profess to know anything much about BDSM and its role in my life at this stage. I do however, work from home and watch more porn than is good for me, so I'm not exactly innocent! I find both aspects of both dominant and submissive roles incredibly erotic, though I expect I need to learn more about being a good Dom if I am to be the one introducing wifey to new ideas.

There must be others who are in or have gone through a similar scenario. I'm happy to chat/listen/take advice from any friendly people, so feel free to message me. ^Vaguely coherent. Result!

This profile was last updated on 26 Dec 11, 8:33 PM.

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