Ok, well I'm not really sure what to write. All the basics have been covered.

I'm a straight, 20 yr old sub and fairly new to the scene and fairly terrified that I'm taking a step out of my comfort zone by my self. I'm mainly interested in friendship at the moment as I've just come out of a bad relationship and have no desire to repeat the experience. However at the moment I'm dating someone who I met while working. He's vanilla bur curious so I'm seeing where it goes If you memo me, I'll do my best to reply (though maybe not right away) to everyone but don't assume that means you own me in any way. It means I have manners.

It's hard to say what my BDSM interests are as I haven't had much experience. I'm mainly interested in D/s (TPE), however light B&D and S&M is fun, although I usually like to keep those two in the bedroom (so to speak). I'm willing to try almost anything once. For me BDSM is too closely tied up with love and sex, and that includes the often-neglected vanilla aspect. So I don't do one-night-stands or playing around. If I choose to be someone it's because I think there is a chance of it being a long-term relationship.

This isn't a full list. My vanilla interests are far too numerous to list ALL of them, but outside of BDSM, I'm interested in sci-fi, horror and fantasy (films and books) and the occult, although it's not a huge part of my life. I also play on World of Warcraft (yes, I'm a geek!) Music-wise I mainly listen to European Goth although I like classic British rock and, strangely a band called Medieval Baebes. Most people would say I'm a Goth due to my clothing and taste in music, but I say I'm normal (isn't that always the way?) I have two tattoos, cherry blossom on the inside of my lower-left arm and a dragon on my right shoulder. I'm toying with the idea of getting a couple more, but I don't want to end up looking like a patchwork quilt! I have a strange sense of humour and most people don't seem to get it...maybe that just makes me weird I'm a light smoker and a very (very) light drinker. (AKA a light-weight) I'm a social creature and enjoy chatting with anyone and everyone.

As for my dislikes…well at the top of the list is needles. This is a phobia, so it doesn't matter how often people tell me there is nothing to worry about, by definition it's irrational, I know this and it doesn't stop me having hysterics if someone tries to stick a needle in me. I don't get on with people who change their likes/dislikes to make people like them: it doesn't work, you'll be found out eventually, so is it worth it? No. The same goes for people who lie/exaggerate to make themselves sound better than they really are. No one is perfect, that's only natural. I don't like R 'n B, D n' B or hip-hop etc, nor am I a fan of most chart music (generally speaking). I don't have anything against people who do like it, but personally it makes my head hurt. I don't like people assuming that because I'm submissive it means I have no valid opinions/emotions/ideas etc. To parrot what is often said: submissive does not mean doormat. I don't get Dom/es have upper-case and subs get lower-case so if you're speaking to E/everyone, you have to say “Hello A/all…etc.” Nor do I like txt spk. I LIKE vowels. So please use English when talking to me. I also dislike people who don't reply to polite memos, even just to say "sorry, I'm not interested"... My last pet peeves is people who don't read profiles, then memo/message someone and proceed to ask them things which are already answered. Of course, the people who this applies to won't be reading this, will they?

I sound like a miserable sod after that last paragraph, but if you memo me you'll find that out eventually anyway

Ok, there are still loads of holes in my profile, so I'll probably keep adding to it/rephrasing for quite a while.

If we get to the stage of exchanging MSN details then I will have to insist on a photo, however this is a two way street and you'll get to see me too (Where I'm not hiding behind my hair, like the one that is on here)