IC Name: Newtothisgame Joined: 17 Dec 2007 Last visit: 147 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: London, UK Age: 35

I'm slowly updating this, but there is typically high level of procrastination... Very slowly. Very slowly indeed.

About me: The clue's in the name. I've experimented with some (fairly light) BDSM in previous relationships and am interested in exploring it some more. Looking through this website, I realise that my wildest dreams seem quite tame compared to what some people get up to, but I haven't yet tested what my limits are and am quite interested in that. For a while I have been flirting around the edges of the website, but now feel ready to take the plunge!

What I'm looking for: By nature I'm more into being dominant, but I have enjoyed my (very brief) forays into submission as well (please excuse me if I appear to be covering all bases). I think that whilst I wouldn't be averse to a bit of play as a sub, for a relationship I am definitely more dominant and that's what I would be ultimately looking for. Although that could all change as my experiences grow.

And I am ultimately looking for a long-term relationship, but more than happy to have some fun along the way.

In terms of a relationship (or play), I don't have a particular type and I find attractive those who I find attractive, so I doubt that prescriptiveness would work (she would however have to not object to me making up words). I definitely need someone that I can gel with in an intellectual way though.

I am not greatly into inflicting (or receiving) pain and find the mental part of it all far more stimulating. Having said that, a light spanking never hurt anyone..

I'm also interested in meeting/talking to people more experienced than me and can offer a (non-sexual) helping hand as I find my way.

I would like to think that I'm intelligent, cultured and aware of the world and generally an all-round fantastic person (but who wouldn't? About themselves rather than me obviously…) and, which seems to be important to a surprisingly large number of people, I know the difference between less and fewer.

And no photo as yet due, of course, my supreme ugliness. And, more seriously, I'm surprisingly nervous about putting my photo out there on the web. I know it seems strange to some, but I'm happy to exchange photos after a little chat.

Hope that that all makes sense.

Hair colour: Brown   Height: 6ft   Weight: 14st 9lb   BMI: 27.6  

This profile was last updated on 29 Aug 11, 10:14 PM.

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