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IC : Profiles : NaughtyJim
| Profile: | NaughtyJim |
| Created on: | 4 Aug 2006 |
| Last visit: | 32 hours ago |
| Country: | UK |
| Location: | London |
| Sex/gender: | Male |
| Homepage: | http://naibdsm.blo... |
| Age: | 32 |
| Hair colour: | Black |
| Eye colour: | Brown |
| Weight: | 12st 4lb |
| Height: | 5ft 9in |
| BMI: | 25.2 |
| Sex/gender seeking: | Female | | Ad title: | Fall Assist... |
| Ad updated: | 153 days ago |
People who write less than a paragraph get put in the bin. People who write more than a paragraph get SPANKED! See, I am 'even handed' and 'fair'...  |
Hi...
I'm Jim. I moved to London a few years ago, having left the forces. I'm an intelligent and eloquent guy, 32 years old, with a love of ALL things kinky. Jim is/has: - well educated and a little 'over English' (I've been told
 ). - usually upbeat.
- polyamorous (see here for more).
- standards in life; but they are the important ones (eg. honesty, respect, etc.)
- kind and friendly.
- affectionate and tactile, but not soppy.
- Funny.
- Often cynical, but in a good way...
- sadistic and evil.
My limits lie just beyond yours...I'll take you there, if you wish...Jim Likes: - Martial Arts, swimming, gliding, music, art
(in fact anything that allows adrenaline or creativity is good with me!)
- People who have no 'front'.
- Good friends.
- Fun!
- To go out for drinks!
- Daddy's li'l girls and wayward sluts...
- To degrade and humiliate and discipline.
Jim Dislikes: - Scene bullshit.
- Dishonesty.
- Judgemental people (this one might be a bit rich but I've made a new resolution).
- People who turn up with a list of things they will and won't do and then say "Now, get on with it Mr. Dom!" *Next, please...!!*
- Dull Preeny Attention whores...
In terms of SM/play
I'm a Dom who occasionally (for his own selfish pleasure) switches. It has to be said, though, I'm a rubbish sub (and may need training ) and mostly enjoy doming. - Translation: I almost never switch, you'd have to be SO f'ing good!
NB: I'm into other fetishes besides BDSM which I'm happy to discuss and are explained here. I am a switch in terms of these fetishes and ultimately I'm looking to find someone else who shares them. For play purposes, however, I would be happy with a kinky SM based relationship...
I used to play at 'The Gate' in NW London and have met lots of great people there. Now I mainly have fun at Subversion, TG, Antichrist, etc. as the Gate has returned to being a 'couples only' club. I'm more of a player than a poser, but have no problem with either. I don't hold that bright a view of those who are 'online only' however...
I'm happy to take new play partners (however, I mostly meet those in real life) and to have fun: but long term I am looking to meet someone.In terms of relationships
I am in an amazing non-monogamous poly-amorous LTR with Hedwig - yes I am a lucky fucker!
I hope to meet an outgoing, kinky girl (around 24-35, slim built) who is exciting, honest and fun to be with. Goths/Metal Chicks/EBM (Cybergoth) girls are ALWAYS welcome. I tend to prefer tomboys to 'girly girls' too.
If you are cool, experimental, fun-loving and honest then that would be a good place to start...
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Update: An Epiphany
Recently I had an epiphany! After 3 years I realise who I want to meet: I want to meet a submissive. (as opposed to a bottom...)
This part could easily make me seem like an arsehole. I'm not; I just want to give people a clue about what I'm looking for....
What I think of as submissive comes not from a point of preaching Domly ignorance, but by the way that I have submitted to others in the past:
If I was to submit to you
(1) I would ensure that you were an intelligent, respectful and emotionally capable human being.
(2) Then I would state my hard limits:
"...that I will do nothing that will cause me lasting physical damage or harm; disfigure me or endanger my long term physical or mental health."
(3) Beyond that, I am yours...
I will not give you a list of demands: I will expect nothing of you. I will communicate with you to improve the experience for our mutual benefit. I would suffer and endure whatever you wished, because that is your will and the physical manifestation of my submission. I would be at least as interested in your pleasure as I am in my own and would always aim to blow your mind (because that's exactly how I operate as a Dom)!
BDSM is a 'seduction' (people seem to miss that!): The thrill of submitting is being under someone else's control - which means you have to give up at least part of yours. It's meant to be fun: I would aim to impress and surrender, not fortify and control. |
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