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IC : Profiles : Ms_Valentine

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Profile:	Ms_Valentine
Created on:	17 Apr 2008
Last visit:	4 days ago
Country:	UK
Location:	Berkshire
Sex/gender:	Female
Age:	42
Hair colour:	brown
Eye colour:	green

Welcome to the profile of Ms_Valentine, Mistress to paulss.

Although I have taken on my current name relatively recently, I have been a member of IC since 2002 and on the real life scene for twelve years and a Professional Dominant since 1998.

Domestically........

Paulss and I met in 2002 and he became my sub and we began living together in Jan 2007.

Paul is a wonderfully obedient sub, attentive and devoted. He is also my best friend, lover and life companion. Our relationship is romantic yet embedded core deep with elements of the bdsm world. There is no part of his life I do not control. He is devoted to my pleasure, happiness and comfort.

Although we live 24/7, paul is not my slave. It is my choice that we are not Mistress and slave. However, we have agreed that paul is, similar to a slave, not allowed to leave our relationship without my agreement.

So, now we are in a category all on our own. He is a sub with no rights but who is not, and never will be, a slave. I am a Mistress with complete control and possession of her sub who is not an owner. It makes sense to us and that is what is most important.

I am currently intrigued by the concept of “possession' as being explored by Tanos on the 'O and P' threads.

Socially..........

We both enjoy the bdsm social scene locally and sometimes further afield and attend the Farnborough Munch, Reading Munch and Berkshire Dom Sub Munch as well as fetish fairs and club events especially ST.

If you see us, then feel free to come say hello.

Professionally......

I also maintain a Pro-Domme profile on IC which is @MistressKeene and am also @Professional_BDSM

This profile was last updated on 10 Jan 10, 10:33 AM

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