Ms Valentine

IC Name: Ms_Valentine Joined: 11 Aug 2002 Last visit: 3 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Norfolk, UK Age: 44

*Not looking for subs so please do not ask me*

Paul and I met in 2002 when he became my sub and we've been living together since Jan 2007.

Although we live 24/7 D/s, a female led relationship, paul is not my slave but is my (submissive) partner and lover. Whilst respecting entirely what others think and do, I know I cannot 'own' a human being in reality or even metaphorically. Our strength is that we stay together because this is the life we want and choose.

Paul's submission to me is deep and strong. He gives me all he can give. I want for nothing from him.

We live only in the moment, it is all humans have done or can do. The future is an imaginary place but now is real. I only ask Paul for what is tangible now and real. Moment by moment, he adds to my happiness.

Things I have learned about myself which I did not know fifteen years ago:

* I am as far from a traditional "femdom" as you will ever get.

* Having tried these things I discovered they hold no interest for me. Feminising men, humiliating men, strapping a plastic cock to myself, urinating on men, any kind of 'worthless worm' interaction, pretending to be a Goddess, having 'slaves',age play of any kind and high protocol play

* I have not tried the following and don't want to. Being kinky doesn't mean liking all kinks and some I just do not find interesting, a bit like golf, I know it is out there but nothing would persuade me to go do it. I know I would hate it. Wearing rubber, leather, pvc, thigh high boots or 'dressing up' generally. Blood, shit, needles, smoking play, messy play, food play, pet play, Gorean stuff and probably lots more.

* I am more into control than pain but some pain is good. I am not into push, push, pushing limits. I know my own level and play to that. My sub does not have to be crying in agony for me to have fun.

* The things I like doing, I really like and can do them over and over without getting bored. I know what I love and don't and do not seek endless variety but rather refining the set of pleasures I do have.

There is much I could ramble on about, my interests, views, philosophies and the like. If anyone is interested they can read my posts, blogs or ask me.

Eye colour: green   Hair colour: brown  

This profile was last updated on 14 May 12, 11:53 AM.

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