My Book: Uniquely Rika

IC Name: Ms_Rika Joined: 23 Oct 2011 Last visit: 67 minutes ago Sex/gender: Female Location: New York City Area US, US Website: http://www.lulu.co...

Lifestyle D/s Domme and Author. My dynamic revolves around service-based D/s. It is not scene-based, although I do enjoy BDSM play from time to time.

A bit about my view:

A sub is a student, no matter how experienced. He must learn the preferences of his unique partner and develop the skills to deliver them. He must divorce himself of any preconceived notions of what submission and dominance is, and re-learn based on what pleases his partner. To serve me, my subs must learn to anticipate my needs and take care of them before being asked. I am not interested in barking orders or punishing. I enjoy power and control, but do not need sub-centric activities to do so. Subs energies are self-generated and molded to my needs or they need not serve. In my domain, the D/s dynamic is domme-centric. Consider what you can do FOR me, not what I will do TO you.

If you're really interested in my approach to D/s, read my book, "Uniquely Rika" - available through Lulu, Amazon, B&N, etc.

Why am I here? I have no need for new subs at this time. You can imagine that submission as I described above takes a lot of time and commitment...these are not quick relationships. Furthermore, I have no interest in online dominanation...I find it too false and non-serving.

I would love to communicate with anyone who wants to discover more about the D/s lifestyle and explore the variety of options it offers. Couples and individuals interested in discussing their relationships and seeking advice are always welcome.

Rika.

This profile was last updated on 2 Dec 11, 2:57 PM.

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