IC Name: Mr_TeaTime Joined: 14 Aug 2004 Last visit: 30 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: SW (South West London), UK

For me, BDSM is a way of sharing and growing with a partner and as a way to keep the physical side of relationships interesting so I'm looking for someone with a similar take on things. I've got some experience having played with five subs but I realise I have lots to learn and discover. I love the power dynamics of a D/s relationship. The control surrendered by a sub in return for the protection of a Dom. By this I mean taking a more traditional role as the lead in a relationship.

My interest tags on this page are a combination of things I like to do and things that I'm curious about trying. I'm particularly partial to blindfolding a sub, putting her in handcuffs and taking my time to enjoy her. I don't want to rush into anything but would like to chat to female subs of a similar age to myself and see what happens. Trust is very important to me so I need to know someone before I would consider playing. I also love choosing an outfit for a sub to wear, be it jeans and t-shirt to do the shopping or a nice business suit for when she goes to work. It's my way of knowing I'm with her during the day.

On the 'dislikes' side I don't like inflicting extreme pain or torture but have found I enjoy using a cane and flogger when deemed necessary. I think I'm happy to consider trying most things after discussion (within usual limits of legality and decency).

In the vanilla world I'm a well educated, 33 year old professional who has a close circle of good friends who are very important to me. I enjoy all the usual stuff – pubs with friends, sport (watching and playing), movies, theatre and reading.

Height: 5ft 9in   Weight: 9st 1lb   BMI: 18.6  

This profile was last updated on 10 Jan 11, 11:39 AM.

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