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IC Name: Mr_Brightside Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Last visit: 112 minutes ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Northants, UK Age: 31

Hey, welcome to my little world.

Firstly, I should probably start by saying that I'd love to meet and get to know people who share similar interests, in either a vanilla or bdsm way. Whether that'd be with a view of staying platonic or move towards 'play' is really unknown, I guess it'd depend on a lot of different things. Long term, like most, I'd love to have a relationship with someone who shares some interests away from the 'scene' as well as sharing any fetishes, someone that in the grander scheme of things could consider me an equal in the world.

I doubt I'll ever be a door mat, and I'm never going to want to submit to any and every woman I meet. There has to be a certain attraction and chemistry to be there for me to want to worship and submit to someone. To me that's just logical but at the same time I'd never belittle anyone that has a 'all men are scum, and all woman are great' mentality, it's just not my mentality.

With regards to fetishes and interests, the things I've ticked/added are things I'm sure I like. Ok to be honest I don't actually 'like' pain, but I'm fascinated by it. The idea of being reduced to tears equally fascinates me, sometimes I crave nothing more than the company of someone that could be capable of reducing me to a complete wreck of a human being, but then other times I'm likely to just to want closeness and intimacy. I don't really think I'm a masochist as I don't enjoy being hurt, but at the same time I am always drawn to sadists. It's like I love woman that want to hurt me, but I hate wanting to be hurt, (that the sentence makes far more sense in my head than it does in typed words, but I hope it's all understandable).

Of course it's almost inevitable that over time my interests will grow as I grow. And what may work with one person, may not work with another, chemistry and all that. I would just like to mention asphyxiation and breath control/play, it's possibly my biggest kink. I love it in all forms from the mild to the extremes. I'm not sure why, but then again I'm not sure why I like a lot of what I like. I just know that I'm putty in a pretty womans hands the moment my neck receives even the slightest of touches.

Ooooow, before ending I'll add the results of little quizzy thing from quizfarm.

• Bondage - 86%
• Submissive - 82%
• Experimental - 82%
• Masochist - 68%
• Switch - 61%
• Degradation Lover - 57%
• Sadist - 29%
• Exhibitionist / Voyeur - 29%
• Vanilla - 29%
• Dominant - 25%

If you've made it this far and still want to read more, I'll add a bit about me away from bdsm... Music's a big love of my life, I tend to prefer the stuff with guitars to anything else, although other interests include drum n bass, breakbeat, and some of the older hip hop before it turned all "bling blingy". Some of my favourite bands/artists include Oasis (RIP), Plump DJs, Linkin Park, Kasabian, Supergrass, Prodigy, 2 Live Crew, Wu Tang, Eminem, dan le sac vs. Scroobius Pip, Chase & Status, Jaguar Skills and Hadouken.

As well as music, here's a few random likes... Comic book films, Sci Fis, Peep Show, Tottenham Hotspur, F1, UFC, Wasting time on Wikipedia, Unhealthy food, Video gaming, Science and technology, Jack Daniels, Poker, Pizza, Alton Towers, Marmite, Angel (Vampire cursed with a soul), Summertime, Torrentz, Sickipedia, Bill Hicks, Derren Brown, Richard Dawkins.

So that's it, that's me, thanks for reading, good night.

Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: brown   Height: 6ft 3in   Weight: 16st 10lb   BMI: 29.0  

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