I am now the very proud and happy kitty submissive to Iona_O. She is my mummy cat, and I am so happy to be hers, she completes me. We are matched so well both intellectually and in many other ways. We are slowly getting much closer and getting to know each other. Life is most certainly great at the moment and I envisage it getting even better!! It most certainly HAS!!!,

So like most people I do not find this profile writing easy. I guess I should tell you a little about me. I am Simon and I aim to be kind, caring, sensitive, and romantic.

I am also a TV and I have high functioning Asperger's Syndrome hence so at times I can be socially awkward and not always recognize the cues when I overstep other people's boundaries. I am however eager to please so just tell me what I am doing wrong and I will endeavour to correct it. I am a little shy but as Simone I find myself more confident.

When it comes to the BDSM side of life I would say that I am very open minded and always open to try new things.

I am on the whole submissive but I have also recently been discovering that part of me that very much enjoys switching. YES, I AM A SWITCH & I AM PROUD OF IT!!! lol.

I have blue eyes and I am 5 foot 10 tall and usually can be seen sporting an auburn bob wig.

I am 29 years old, I am single and have been dressing for many years now. I first got into dressing when I met up with a pre op TS friend of mine from the internet and I met up with some of her friends on the transgendered scene in Birmingham.

After many discussions with them I discovered that there was a latent part of me that wished to express my feminine side in a more practical way. I have always been feminine in my outlook, I am a real romantic and sensitive creature.

I have also been into BDSM for a few years now and I am most defintely into the active scene i.e. munches, clubs, parties etc.

I like sensation play, wax play, light flogging, servitude, body, leg, foot and intimate worship and violet wands. I am open to try new things after discussing fully with a Dominant,

My sexuality can probably best be described as sapiosexual, that is I am more attracted to a persons mind rather than physically. I am very open minded sexually.

Look forward to hearing back from some of you all soon, and I apologise for the long profile but I believe in proper profiles not just one liner throwaway comments.

Happy viewing and look forward to chatting to people and making more friends both online and hopefully meeting some of you at events.

A note about some of my hard limits

I have a real aversion to crops and canes due to a bad experience i had with a Domme i met off alt.com, I am now ok with crops if they are used sensuously sometimes.

We discussed health issues and safe words beforehand. I was tied up with cable ties, beaten with crops, canes and tawses for an hour solid and the Domme did not respect my safe word and fact i am diabetic and my Aspergers at all.

She just called me a wimp, and various other insults under the sun including weirdo and freak etc.

She then covered me in a duvet sayin i will return in 10 mins to release you. I pleaded with her to release me there and then but she didnt threatening to beat me up further in the same way for another 2 hrs.

She didnt return in 10 minutes, she returned in 14 hours!!!!

I was all alone this time she had gone out to have sex with her boyfriend and I was on the verge of a hypo and covered in bruises etc.

So as you probably can tell i dont like canes etc at all.

** edited 6th October 2008 **